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Hello everyone. I am struggling with what to do. I could really use some sound reasoning. I am a mother of 2: 7 years old and 7 months old. I am 27 and overwhelmed with fear. Yes Im married but kids right behind eachother is a lot. At this point any suggested coping tips or prenantal ideas would be nice. I have been considering terminating the pregnancy.Help
Sending you love and positive energy. You'll make the best decision for you. ♡
Thank you for all your advice. I havent told anyone at all because my family is Christian and can be judgemental. I am still staring daily. Just lost. Thank you again
Sorry the "e" was supposed to be 3
Wow...where to start. First, its your choice and no one has a right to make you feel guilty for it so please forgive me if anything I say makes you feel bad at all as I am just giving advice. I have e and am on my 4th. I had an abortion after my first 2 and not a second has gone by that I regretted it at all. It was all wrong and the baby would have had a bad life. Its a very long story.
Think about the 2 you have now could you live without them? They drive you absolutly mad, they push you to limits you had no idea you had. Sometimes it would be great to just lock em up and go hide but...you love them and life without them would be sad right?
Can you look at them and see them change and grow and know that you terminated a chance at another?
Yeah its hard, beyond hard but in 10 years its gonna be easier.
My best advice is to reach out to family and friends for advice and support because no one on here knows your life like they do. If you think you can live a life time NEVER missing what could have been, then follow your heart but if not, terminating could destroy you beyond words.
Think about the 2 you have now could you live without them? They drive you absolutly mad, they push you to limits you had no idea you had. Sometimes it would be great to just lock em up and go hide but...you love them and life without them would be sad right?
Can you look at them and see them change and grow and know that you terminated a chance at another?
Yeah its hard, beyond hard but in 10 years its gonna be easier.
My best advice is to reach out to family and friends for advice and support because no one on here knows your life like they do. If you think you can live a life time NEVER missing what could have been, then follow your heart but if not, terminating could destroy you beyond words.
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