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Im 33 weeks and goin thru seperation?

How can he just say its over? We have 4 kids and one on the way..we hav 21 years together how can he just lev...we hav problems but he said its just accumulates by the time and now he back wit his mom...she gave her melodrama story lik she the victim...he left also cuz MIL told him i make faces wen she cums around...im due may 20 th...my oldest daughters dont care they are there for me say f**k him..we dont need him...but my 3 little ones and baby on its way..i b strong but theres days i break down..he cums around everyday..luk if its still his house but i gota put a stop to that..it hurts me too much...
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MIL was ok for years just recently she acts lik she the victim..my Dh is the oldest he has brothers that are grown  wit no kids...but always finds herself in my life...its been 3 weeks he still gone..but cums around to check up on my kids but never talks to me or aknowledge me knowing im pregnant almost due in May 20...i try not to get to me but its hard..im still working not getn time off cuz i dont hav noone to help me...if i stay home..takn 2 weeks to recooperate then bak to work..this is hard
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if he can not stand up to his mother he is not a man! if he cant see that she is just trying to put a wedge between you thats his problem, he will miss out on so much with his new baby! if I were you I would tell him if your separated and since he has moved out he may see his children once/ twice a week on agreed times and days and have the locks changed show him your strong and dont need him! he wont be long in seeing what he had! . . . im sorry your going through these things at this stage of your pregnancy! its not fair at all! did you think before that your MIL didnt like you or is this a recent thing?
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