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why so rushed

Yeah being pregnant ***** ...but why are there so many rushing babies out??? You are going to suffer worst pain ever..then you have a child whom will never let you sleep. If you are breastfeeding for a year you will have a child teething on you like a biscuit. I don't get the rush. I hate hate hate being pregnant... Absolutely hate it ...but I don't want to rush her out before she's ready. Your baby comes at their perfect time if that's early or late. So stop drinking nastt stuff eating stuff and bouncing on balls ( all ways ;).) Just enjoy yourself or ur other kids before this one gets here .
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Who are you to judge anyone? You don't know people's circumstances or how they're feeling. Just bc it ***** for you and you can handle it doesn't give you the right to make assumptions. I can't stand being pregnant a minute longer, but I guess I'm selfish bc I go for walks everyday and bounce on my ball at home?? My sister went into such a deep depression she wanted to kill herself and tried to express her feelings and she was judged by people like you. Shame on you.
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Dr orders are a different reason all together, medical issues different. Just because your tired not a reason. For the military wife. Been there sweetie it's horrible sucky being alone. My husband was supposed to be home month before our son.. Nope "loose lips sink ships" they held them over season for 5 months longer. He met our son at 4 months old :(but it was a question that's been on my mind figured I'd ask...if you got catty I assume there's tiny bit of gilt that you know you prob shouldn't....  
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Ladies she isnt talking about women with medical problems who under doctors guidance are being induced...shes talking about the methods of at home use that can cause harm
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As much as I'd love to go to my due date that would mean my husband would get to spend only hours with his son before the military sends him away.   Plus I have gestational diabetes and baby had been measuring about 3 weeks ahead most of the time so I really don't want to have a 10+ lb baby but more so I want my husband to have more time with his son.
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To each their own.  Everyone has different reasons for why they want to do things one way or another.  And as long as doctor is in agreement then who are you to judge? You don't know the situation, you aren't a trained obgyn.
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Well.. Pregnancy induced hypertension *****. So does all the crazy swelling and lack of sleep that comes with pregnancy. As much as I have loved being pregnant the past 9 months, I'm over it now. I'm sick all the time and would much rather be loving on my daughter and losing sleep with her laying next to me than losing sleep with her inside me. Part of me feels guilty for wanting her out, but another part is so happy I will be induced in 4 days at 39 weeks and will be over this hypertension and insomnia and will get to love on my daughter and bond with her.
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I have what's called a displaced pelvis.  This pain is worse than labor and walking is challenging, stairs take forever and I need my boyfriend just to roll over in bed. My doc says he only has one other patient with this problem and she us only 18 weeks and in a wheelchair!!  I am trying to hang in there but it is soo difficult Idk about u but if my doctor says he will induce me I will be naked on the table before he can reach the gloves!
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Bouncing on balls does help.. My midwife told me to have sex to help soften the cervix because I wasn't soft at 41 weeks..
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Certain things contribute to an easier labor,  ie evening primrose oil,  RRL tea, the birthing ball, etc. Baby will come when they want regardless of these things. I personally am just hoping to prepare my body as well as I can and try techniques to get baby in the right position by stretching and sitting/bouncing on the ball.
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Everyone has there own opinion & everyone knows when your near the end its the worst stage so as long as everyone has a healthy baby and a safe delivery then that's all that matters good luck to all of us...
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Me too I am excited but not going to rush her I am going to get my final cleaning done and take time out with the other children I have help raise.  I have a doctor that will not induce or anything unless I am or the baby is in danager.  We made it this far we can do it.  I notice most have been coming early on their own.   Good luck May mothers.
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I agree waited 9 months whats a few weeks..they will come when they are ready...I'm miserable right now 13 days from due date...but im not going to do the extra crazy stuff I've read on here..just going to wait it out
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Why does it matter? Lol. Everyone has their own views and preferences, their body, their baby. This is the final stretch for us all lets just pray for safe deliveries and healthy babies as opposed to ridiculing anyone with different views from our own
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I agree with you. I think to many push to self induce and it's more harmful for baby. But I do think that there are exceptions like preeclampsia, baby way too big to fit in pelvic, etc.... The Dr push it too much to. It's a convenience thing not what's in the best interest of mother and child. Baby will come when baby is ready.
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