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Sad to Be Leaving Nov 08 Babies :-(

I've had a terrible week.  I went for an ultrasound last Friday the 25th and they couldn't find the baby's heartbeat.  I had a second opinion on Monday the 28th--no heartbeat.  I had already seen and heard the baby's heartbeat three times before.  It was a real shock.  No signs, no symptoms, no indication that anything was wrong.  Since my body didn't know the baby had died, I had to have a D&C on Wednesday.  

It's mind boggling that so much joy can turn to such agony in the space of a few minutes.  

I wish all of you the very best with your pregnancies.  I'll be thinking of you in November...  By then, I hope to be on an '09 Babies Forum.  
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i am so sorry to hear about that you are in my prayers along with everyone else on this board. Did they say what caused that happening to you? That's so terrible but I do wish you the best always.
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377412 tn?1283809646
Goingonfivekids is right on the money....I too had a miscarriage Jan08 had DNC and was pregnant in Feb08 and Im 13 wks.  IT CAN HAPPEN. The loss is very difficult but please believe that you can get preg again.
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513629 tn?1218143953
I'm so deeply sorry for your losses, I had a miscarriage this past Oct 8 and had to get a DNC but you know what? I concieved again by Nov 7 so dont think you cant get pregnant right away because you can, I did. They say that after a DNC your uterus is the most greater at risk to get pregnant after. Just like after having a baby, your more open to getting pregnant again right after so dont lose hope women we will see you again here.  
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492921 tn?1321289896
I am sorry to hear your loss.  April 17th I went for my 10 wk u/s and there was no heartbeat after hearing it before at my 6w5d u/s. I also ended up having a D&C.  Nov will be a very hard month for me when it comes knowing that I will not be giving birth to my child.

I wish you the best of luck in ttc again.  

  
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223372 tn?1240920676
I cannot even imagine what you are going through....I am so sorry!!!!!!
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I'm so very sorry for your loss.  It's so hard to go through, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.  
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I m so sorry for your loss.This is what happen with me in last week.I also had miscarriage at 7 weeks.Dont worry.Everything will be fine.I know its to hard for specilly mom.take care
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I am so terribly sorry to hear this.  
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359142 tn?1321120923
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  Its devastating at any time, but after those first couple of months you think you can start to breathe easier.  Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.  Best of luck on your journey.  Take care.
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Thank you for the kind words.  I appreciate your thoughts and prayers.  
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I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Take your time to grieve.  Take care of yourself.  And try again when you are ready.  HUGS.
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449669 tn?1221416125
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless and Keep you Strong!
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443185 tn?1211671293
So sorry Singlemum...
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432779 tn?1364494875
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Nothing anyone can say will help at this moment, you just need time to grieve and eventually start healing.I hope you have family and friends there to support you. I wish you all the best for the future.
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