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1149221 tn?1304827966

Anyone else ready for another one!?

I'm not 100% but I think I want another baby already! I always wanted four, then after Jacob I wanted to be done with it because it was so hard and we figured we would just wait a few years, but now I think I want another one, but the third would be the last one. Am I the only one who wants another baby already?
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1181036 tn?1367368640
I'm also torn. I really want them to be close in age, like 2 years, but I still have 2 yrs left to get my BA degree in History (having Gabe added a year). So if I wait to ttc until my senior year (like spring 2013) they'd be 4 years apart :(   Hubby wants to wait and says we can have the 2nd and 3rd be the ones close in age but that seems unfair to Gabriel...he wouldn't really have as close a playmate.  So we are both up in the air....lol I'm secretly hoping that when Gabriel is 2 hubby changes his mind :) or we are blessed w/a surprise like last time
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933846 tn?1353452448
Aw thats so sweet! Congratulations...let us know when you get your BFP! I dont think I am ready for another. I honestly think I would lose whats left of my mind. lol
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1166767 tn?1315427171
My husband really wanted another one quicky and at first i was kind of hesitant. But a few weeks ago I started feeling like I'm ready. Sooooo We just started trying for our next :)

We had the talk long ago and had decided we want the first 2 close in age and then wait another 4-5 years for the 3rd :)
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1149221 tn?1304827966
I once read that a man rubbing a woman's belly is a psychological act saying he want to have children with you. My DH and I have been talking about it. We both want three now for sure, but we're trying to figure out when the best timing is. I want to remove my IUD and just do it! I miss being pregnant and I want another chance to have an unassisted home birth! And not have anyone tell me he needs a bottle and force it on me!... But then again I want to enjoy Jacob for at least a year.. or maybe try in July? GAH, so many decisions!
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1083673 tn?1388888638
I posted before now I have some more news. My DH has been rubbing my belly a lot lately. I asked him about it and he said he was just doing it. I think there is something else behind it. Idk. He wont tell me though I think he is afraid to admit he wants another already. What do you ladies think?
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773214 tn?1295135069
I have been torn over this lately.  In fact, it makes me sad to think about it.  I have the two boys now and Brayden is growing so fast. I look in his closet and see clothes that he's already outgrown and get sad thinking there might not be another baby to be in those clothes.  I have had some stressful times and part of me thinks I'd be crazy to have another..but part of me can't help thinking about having a third.  And, I also miss being pregnant too...I"m just not ready to be done with all of that, but when Brayden is challenging me so much I think I'd pull my hair out with 3!!!  So conflicted...
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689528 tn?1364135841
DH was the first to mention that he wanted one sooner than later. At first I said in like 3 years. Once Brady starts potty training! LOL Then we wont be spending a fortune on diapers all at once. BUT yes I indeed have the fever too. It's crazy!! LOL DH wants them close in age and he has a point. So I'm thinking once Brady turns a year old then maybe start again. We aren't using protection, just the pull out method so anything could happen.
I don't know about anyone else but I totally miss being pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I love that Brady is here. He's my everything but I'm missing the pregnant belly and all that comes with it!! Not the aches and pains but the feeling, the attention...I loved being pregnant, I felt my most healthy!
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1083673 tn?1388888638
Oh I am so glad you asked this. I want another one right now but we are having a little bit of an issue with DH's job situation right now so we can only afford Naomi right now. I am already starting to do research as some of you know from my just thinking post about a VBAC b/c i was pressured into a section bc he wanted to be done and not have to worry about me. Any ways. My Dh wants another too. We both want to try for a little boy this time though. We want Naomi to have some time just to be a baby first before we make her a big sister. We were thinking three years difference. Idk. If God has another plan that is fine with me. The only problem other than DH job and wanting Naomi to get some time is DH dad is trying to tell us we have to wait 5 years. I was like this isnt your choice this is ours. Sorry you guys ranting a little. But yes I want another just not sure if it will be in 3 years or before.
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187316 tn?1386356682
I want another one.... in a few years. It will be my last baby so I don't want to have those days just be behind me.
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933846 tn?1353452448
I went thru that fever a month ago but I changed my mind really quick. LOL In fact in excited to be getting my IUD tomorrow :D I do want another in a few years maybe a couple but im not ready right now.

Is your husband on board?
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