I really want to call our son after my dear father who died suddenly 2 years ago. He had an uncommon but not unfamiliar French name. I know I will be really upset if my partner didn't consider it or want it as even a middle or second name. We haven't discussed names yet at all and I'm not sure how to approach it. My family all have distinctive names and his family all have ordinary (dull in my opinion!) names, including his two children from his previous marriage. Does anyone have any advice for how I should approach this delicate yet important discussion? And help swing it my way ;)