confused

[Edge_T]

Am 8wks apart from the lethargic and nauseous feeling.
Am so torn...I want this baby but baby daddy says No that its not the right time.
Scared since this will be my 2nd with a diff man, everything has been going on well and we were to settle together until Jan when he said he wasn't sure about it.
What will my family think?
Not sure I will manage to take care of the two,(let alone the newborn shopping) if he bails out and wants nothing to do with us?
He has even suggested abortion which I have refused...
When I think of everything can't help but cry myself to sleep,not sure which way.
I am torn and in despair...
Those who believe in prayers, remember and that he may have a change of heart.
Thank you

[AmbriaCJ]

You will be okay. Its not going to be easy but not impossible. A couple of years from now youll look at your teo babies and it will be the best decision you ever made. On the other hand, everyone makes mistakes. And at the end of the day your family will be your biggest helpers. They might have some negative things to say but they love you. As for the father of your unborn child its okay to be hurt but when your pregnant stress is NOT good for the baby. So if he doesnt want to be in the babies life let him go. Maybe he will change when the baby gets here but if he doesnt theres plenty of organizations and communities that will help you with everything you need for baby.