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I CAN'T STOP CRYING !! :(

So my bf ignores me all the time he rejects my calls but he could be on facebook giving his number out and be calling and texting girls. So ive been blowin up his phone he told me i was annoying and a psycho but he doesnt get that am tired of being lied too and being played. Ive been crying all day and i just want to know if its bad for the baby ??
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He's not worth hurting your baby over.Please don't hurt your baby.
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He's doing him best thing to think about is how you are gonna do you and make sure your baby knows that you love him/her. Be happy, you can't let him know that he's getting what he wants and making you upset show him that he's gonna miss out on being the father of your beautiful baby. Stress is not the key happy is the way to be
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Stay positive <3
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Yes, everything you feel your baby feels. I know its hard to see someone you love just not care about how you feel, but now you have a blessing from God growing inside you. You can't let what he does bring you down,if he isn't going to be man enough to be there for you and his child then you don't need that negative energy around you and the baby. Keep your head up, you gotta be strong for your babygirl. Everything will be okay, God knows what he's going
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You're welcome :)I Don't mind helPing/giving advice to others.  
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*needed
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Thank yu all for the support i really beeded and appreciate it :)
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Keep us updated :) im sure you and the baby will be fine. Youve made it as far as you have now and you can and Will make it no matter the circumstances (:
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I try to ignore but it gets to me n i do agree with u girls. Ive had 2 miscarriages before. N now i am 21 weeks with a babygirl. N all this stressin n cryin has me worried now hoping i dnt loose another baby because of this ****
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GOD has a plan for everyone . Im not gonna judge him but in my opinion he just uses you when he can & expects you to be alright with it. If he had a heart at all he would either QUIT talking to other girls or just tell you he doesn't feel the same. Maybe he will grow a pair of real balls and be a FATHER . Who knows. Only GOD . Stay strong dont let ******** get to ya. Stressing out a lot can lead to miscarriages and no one wants that. It ***** .. I went through it. That baby's life is more important then worrying with his immature crap :)
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YES! Stress is not good :( You can hurt the baby. Don't worry about that jerk. If he can't be there for you during the mist of a crisis, then he's not worth fighting for. I've been through the same thing you are going through. I was really needy and it seemed the more I called for his help, the further away he left me.
Trust me. That jerk needs to get his mind and priorities straight because you can't make someone be the man you want. He has to want to. And you will find out what kind of man he truly is.
Be strong for that precious thing growing inside you this very moment. I promise, you'll be okay.
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I will say yes tht is bad for the baby and if I was you I won't keep trying to make it work I would just focus on this new life tht you have been blessed with. Don't give him all your energy and time take tht love and give it and more to your baby. Trust you can make it on your own.
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Thank yu girls i really needed to talk to someone ♡
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I know but at the same time i dont want to loose but am tired of the same ****. And it makes me feel stupid because i cry cus am hurt n tell this girls off n he still continues to talk to them
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Stay strong hun ur baby is wat counts now dont mind ur bf God as someting in store for him just trust god and have faith
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& put it this way . Its better to be cold hearted . It shows him that his actions doesn't get to you because you have a baby's health to worry about. He will realize one day what he done and see that it was gone. It may be after you move on with your life but it will show him that you really cared but couldn't put up with his bull crap.
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You may feel stupid , but you cant help who you love. I guarantee you once you see your baby you will love that baby more then him and life its self :) And you're welcome . (:
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Its just hurts been with him for 5 years n he still does this. I am just so hurt and feel so stupid . But thank yu ♡
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*gone
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Yes ..you dont need to stress out over a guy.. most guys will pretend they care for so long then just up and be gin out of your life . Just dont let it bother you. In my perspective it takes 2 to make a baby and he should man up and be a FATHER . Any guy can be a "dad" but it takes a REAL MAN TO BE A FATHER. focus on your baby and you. (: keep ya head up and stay strong .
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