Need some advice

[Nellyprego1]

I have double the trouble because my bf is 48 and I am 22 so it ****** that everyone thinks I am his daughter and now I'm pregnant. I have was married to an older man until his passing. People have just been so disrespectful and I want to snap on the next person who tries to call me his daughter.

[Nellyprego1]

Thanks everyone I know people are going to be stuck on stupid. So I am going to still check your opinions at the door but a little bit different.  And laugh at them all day

[Tia2015]

Thats adorable! My partner is a square bear very protective but doesnt care what people say anymore, he hates people that stare at me though but i guess thats what people do and what men do, because im young with a belly i get alote of looks to do with that and i hate it mostly older women do it to me and it frustrates me becaise ypu know what there thinking but im financialy ready for my baby we have our own home our own car, but i guess thats what people do i guess is judge, goodluck hun:)

[zulema1015]

UMMM NO!!!! It is not ok for ppl to jump into conclusions that is what is wrong with society. People need to remember there manners if we allow people to assume we are allow judgement they don't know him or her period they shouldn't be jumping to any conclusions. Girly it ***** you deal with ignorant people, I am only a yr younger than my hubby but my little brother looks like me A LOT! and every time we go out just me and him they think he is my son, and even he gets tired of it my little bro is 12 im 24. We were walking once and a lady literally grabbed my hand and said how old are you I gave her a dirty look and before I could respond my brother told her, "You should be ashamed for judging her especially if you believe in God she is my sister." Than he grabbed the lady's arm pulled it off of me and we kept walking. I'm sorry but if someone is going to be rude you have two options 1. tell them off 2. Tell them off politely.

No one has the right to make dirty looks, or say rude comments, I would have told those people "No I am not his daughter, I am his gf/wife...do you have a problem?" plain and simple. those people are just stupid, jealous, and ignorant.

[tiffgary]

I'm 22 and with a 36 year old f*** what people say

[Nellyprego1]

He is cool about it sometimes until they get rude like the one that said wtf he just said good morning and we laugh to the truck because she was just in shock. The men if they stare to hard or long he ready to fight which is cute because those truckers see him with this young gf and they can't wait for him to leave me by myself. He always holds my hand when we are in public for the men.

[kmod]

You can't really blame people for jumping to that conclusion. If you're old enough to be his daughter then that's what people will think. It's how you react to it that matters. Like instead of getting defensive just smile and say something like 'he's my husband...lucky couple, huh? I get experience, he gets wife with perky boobs *wink*'

[Tia2015]

Oh wow, ignore them dont let it get to you hun, we cant help who we have fell inlove with, i have learnt to just stick it and show them we dont care and that we are proud :) does it bother your partner hun how does he feel about it all

[Nellyprego1]

He is a truck driver so sometimes I going with him on the road and the we always get dirt looks from women only. Like one day we came out the shower room together this woman blurted wtf and then another woman asked him did he want another shower for me his daughter. I said I am not his daughter an took the key

[Tia2015]

Im 17 amd my parter is 29 this year and we always get the looks at first it made my partner so uncomftable and it honestly got inbetween us because i thought he was embarriesd by me and how young i look compare to him but now we are happy as ever and ignore everyone :) but my midwife that i met the other day was very judgmental, kept asking about him and me and i felt so uncomftable, i feel you hun i do but **** the haters :) congrats btw

[ericaranae]

Screw the haters... We cannot help who we fall in love with..age race nothing matters when its love. Stay calm and remember that you are happy with him and some people wont understand it but you 2 do and thats all that matters :)