I honestly wouldn't want him there either if he hasn't been there for you. Labor isn't easy and you need supportive people around you
I was gonna say the same thing i wouldn't want him there i wouldn't of told him or his family just give yourself some time away and focus on you and the baby and enjoy your day you gonna have plenty of time to deal with that drama later
I don't know all the issues between his family and u but y'all need to find away to get along. It is your boyfriend job to sit everybody down and find out what is going on. I see so many women make these decisions and regret them later. I used to make decisions based on my feelings and later on down the line when everyone is getting along and we start talking about the old days they weren't apart of it becuz of foolishness. It going to take a lot of people to raise a child. Anyone that u love and trust will be needed when u have ur child. I truly found out the hard way. Its u and his family choice to continue to be mad at one another but ur child will suffer becuz that's the child family too. Your relationship will suffer as well.
No your not wrong despite what's going on you should let him see his child being born then bye bye to him