Aa
just ranting
My boyfriend has been sleeping on the couch for a few nights and I got upset because I wanted him to sleep with me because there is no reason for him not too and then his sister tells me I'm over reacting. And I'm over reacting?!
A fb message! Wow, what a loser. I was confused about why the sister is even aware that he's sleeping in the couch but sounds like you wind have to deal with her anymore either. I'm so sorry that he would leave you while you're pregnant. I hope you find a good guy in the future. Don't waste anymore of your short life trying to fix anything with him. He's hurtful and beneath you. Try to co-parent peacefully and look for Prince Charming. I think he's out there for everyone.
Honestly if he did that,that just shows the type of person he is and he is not a man he could have been and adult about the situation and talk to you about his feelings let u know he fell out of love with you but he will still be there for his kids,but to DM you on facebook that's so childish and immature i know it hurts but he did u favor
I just read your last post....just wanted to say you're not alone. I caught mine messing around and now he hasn't come home for over a week. I decided that the way I feel is a choice and even though I have no control over what he does...I can control how I feel. This isn't your fault. Don't punish yourself by feeling horrible.
Well ladies, I woke up to his stuff gone and a Facebook message telling me he just doesn't love me anymore.
I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my first child and my boyfriend has done various things throughout the pregnancy that's has irritated me or pissed me off. I have come to realize they just do stuff sometimes that they don't consider a big deal but we do. We are the ones pregnant and as much as we want them to understand that.. they won't. Its harder for then to get it cause their not experienceing any changes. So I started to just make sure I was keeping calm and enjoying my pregnancy. (Ignoring him) and mine came around. So stop asking him to come to bed. Set up your pillows get comfy and watch TV until you go to bed. Watch you'll wake up and his butt will be in that bed.
No it has nothing to do with how I sleep, he just chooses not to and when I ask him to come to bed I get a "I'm comfy" and then his sister just thinks I'm so mean for acting this way.
During my pregnancy my husband slept on the couch a lot. He did it for my comfort and his ability to sleep. I snored really bad and I needed 6 pillows. I didn't like it, but I understood. He did always come to bed with me and try to sleep in bed. Since having the baby he is back in bed. Just talk to him.
What's his reason for sleeping there :-/
He* not Jr
You're not over reacting. When me and my hubby had a disagreement once he went to sleep on the couch because he thought Jr was in the bad books and i said to him. Oh what, have we broken up? And he said no...? And then i said, I'm mad at you but unless we have broken up then get back in our bed! He's never done it since.
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