You don't have to let her take them. You are their parent and she is a grandparent. Tell her no, do not let her tell you when and where she sees your kids, that is your job. What does your husband say?
He told her we'll see her Tuesday night when we get back. And she's telling him that we cant stop her from seeing or taking the boys
Well you can. You both need to set boundaries with her and stand your ground. Hopefully she gets it and it doesn't get any worse. She sounds a little unstable :/
I just give up on this lady for good she clearly doesnt trust me with kids and my eldest son isn't even her biological grandchild
I say be honest with her and tell ur husband to have a serious talk with her and set boundaries. Let him do it sge wont listen to u and uh go with ur family to ur reunion she dont own u
Okay, I agree. She's sounding a little kooku. Can your husband talk to her husband, her dad? She's not dangerous or anything, is she?