single parent

[youngmom2016]

I am almost 30 weeks pregnant with my first child and I'm 17 my child's father is 20 and he has been telling everyone that my Child isn't his when he is 100% his and every time I try to have a conversation with him he turns it into an argument..the only thing he has bought or put any money towards for our son was for a stuffed animal that was $10 he isn't paying for any bills or going to appointments I have paid over $18,000 in bills.. is it bad I don't want him in delivery room since the last time I seen him in person was in April and since he don't want to claim our son?

[christinah90]

Screw him if he ain't gonna claim the child I wouldn't even tell him when you have the baby to be honest. Once you have the baby take his *** to court for DNA nd child support. But make sure you also go for full custody bc then you decide if nd when he can see the baby.

[vallegarcia15]

Damn that's a really hard situation. And yea I agree too don't let him go into the delivery room if he is not helping on anything prove to him he is the dad and that will make him regret a lot all the moments he missed ..well I never pass through something like that but I would be feeling very hurtful..I am 19 I am 37 weeks and this is my second child I have a 3 year old and in my case his dad and my baby girl this time have never miss any of this special moments with both of his kids ..well I wish u the best luck and u are a very mature person facing all this situation by yourself ..don't let him get you down girl u will be an amazing mother

[vidsrik]

No need of inviting a person who is disowning the child.. This will only increase your stress levels in this point of time. .. I am sure u will be able to manage everything by yourself... If a person is not there to support you at your worst doesn't deserve you at your best!!! Good luck ...

[shanique2553]

Thats my baby father two every bills to pay his mother and my mother but im praying god answer prayer me hate him

[natduck13]

You do what you think is best for your son you want to go through your delivery peacefully and if he's just gonna cause problems don't let him in there and if he causes a scene the hospital will escort him out if you ask. tell him he needs to man up he laid down with you and got you pregnant do a dna test make him pay  You don't want a guy in your son life that's just gonna come in when he wants and leave when he wants put down some boundaries just do what you think is best for your son yea it's the baby daddy but you gotta do what you gotta do doesn't matter about him it matters about that baby

[AlloraTristan]

get on some better insurance!!
& Fu©! him id leave him out and off the birth certificate. And put him on child support and prove to him the babie is his and now he's gonna pay!!

[Sxl0072412]

Yea I definetly wouldn't invite him in the room if he isn't going to claim his child.
In the end when you take a dna test and he is the dad he will feel like **** for missing the birth and missing out on the pregnancy with you but that'll be on him not you.

[MelB0824]

No, Honestly I don't think its bad that you don't want him in the delivery room with you since he doesn't want to claim his son. There's no point of including someone who isn't supportive. Hoped that made sense...

[suggsbaby]

I wouldnt im sort of in the same boat as you. My little girls dad wount be in the roon