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I'm newly married my one year is next month... I have 2 kids from a previous relationship and I'm pregnant by my husband now.. his mother has nothing to do with my two that aren't my husband but is saying she wants be involved and   around for every second of the baby I'm having with my husband because this is her full blood grandchild am I wrong to be upset about what she is doing cause I think she should except all my kids the same regardless of what the situation is
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Me and his mother lately have not being seeing eye to eye anywas cause she told me she feels that I am taking her son away from I just lost on what to about everything
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See that's what I tell him that he just dosent see it cause it's his mom and I keep telling him the kids will notice the difference but he dosent want to hurt his moms feelings but he dosent understand this hurts me as a mother too
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I went thru the same thjng. It was horrible. I only had one by a previous marriage he was so little and they would buy for others and not him. He was Totally an outcast. My husband was blind by it until one Christmas his all kids got a guitar but him. Put a stop to it speak up now. Don't let them treat ur babies any diff. I kept quiet bc I didn't want friction with my husbands family. I felt like it was his place to say something. He finally started to and things changed but it took years. My baby was young and innocent he didn't understand why he got treated that way. Don't let ur babies go thru that. If ur husband can't speak up to her and u love him then u do it. Don't let it keep on
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I went thru the same thjng. It was horrible. I only had one by a previous marriage he was so little and they would buy for others and not him. He was Totally an outcast. My husband was blind by it until one Christmas his all kids got a guitar but him. Put a stop to it speak up now. Don't let them treat ur babies any diff. I kept quiet bc I didn't want friction with my husbands family. I felt like it was his place to say something. He finally started to and things changed but it took years. My baby was young and innocent he didn't understand why he got treated that way. Don't let ur babies go thru that. If ur husband can't speak up to her and u love him then u do it. Don't let it keep on
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