worried my dad will kick me out????

[kittin_1988]

I'm 27 yr old this yr an ill be 28 weeks in 2 day. I currently live with my dad an have been for financial reasons. I have 3 other kids 10 5 an 19 months. The previous dad's want nothing to do with there kids. The guy I with now is great guy unfortunately my dad hates him. We r in the process of saving money to get our own place but we were going to wait till  income tax. I haven't told my dad who the father of my Child is. Of course to be honest he hasn't asked either. But I know I need to sit down an tell him soon but I've put it off for so long because I'm afraid he's not going to let me stay till income tax. An I literally have no where to go. I've been trying to  wait till I'm quite far along so he will just have to except it but I'm still worried that he's going to kick me an my kids out. An with school starting at the end of next month. I really want to sit down an talk to him before my to oldest come back from my mom's. I love my dad alot an I want my kids to have there papa I'm there life. I'm not sure wat to do. If I should wait to tell him or if I should tell him now an just explain to him if he wants me out to please wait till income tax.

[blowhard]

If your situation is as it is I would wait try to hold off as long as you can before telling him I understand my 10 year olds dad is a drug addict too he wants nothing to do with his son I'm pregnant right now 34 weeks and 4 days this father has nothing to do with his child wants nothing to do so I understand I'm just in a spot where I get help with my housing so it helps a lot but it doesn't sound like you have that help so I would wait protect your kids as long as you can I'm being thrown out if you need to talk I'm here

[kittin_1988]

Thank you. .... I just wish I could see how he's going to react...before I tell him

[Anomalychick]

They can legally require you to allow them visitation right now if they wanted to, they have rights to visitation even if they don't pay child support. If they really wanted it, they probably would have done so already. You are entitled to child support. If any of the fathers are on drugs or have a record for domestic violence or related, the court may not even allow them visitation. You should also know that if you ever file for government assistance of any kind, the department of revenue will file child support against the fathers of the other children anyway.

[blowhard]

Talk to your dad now, if he loves you he will understand that times are hard, don't wanna be nosy but do you receive child support,  if not go after them

[kittin_1988]

No I get no child support an if I was to get it I'd have to give the visitation an If they want nothing to do with there kids then I don't want them to be there either. I  tried for a long time but I just think it's better this way ... my 10 yr old dad us a drug addict now an my 5 yr old dad is in prison an my 19 month old idk were his dad is...... an yes my dad loves me but he's an *** to like big *** I wouldn't put it past him to kick me out on tge street with my kids.....