Breaks my heart

[DelainaN]

I don't think some females really understand the responsibility and time and money that goes into raising a child. ( especially some teens) no offense to teens on here, every girl has a story but I get so frustrated when I hear of girls trapping men thinking babies are gonna fix their relationship problems, or having babies to rely on the gov. And/or child support ect. Babies aren't dolls they are human beings, ya they are cute but the reality is much more difficult, time consuming, draining and very expensive, and i firmly believe if your incapable of taking care of yourself and making educated decisions you should not be allowed to have kids, its the babies that suffer and even the public. Having and raising kids is the most important and life changing thing anyone will go through so its a big deal, I wish everyone would treat it as such instead of bringing babies into bad situations, babies don't fix broken relationships they just make them more complicated and end them inevitably.  ugh the end .

[lisaerin86]

I like this rant :) totally agree that kids make everything 100 times harder emotinally, finacially, relationship wise, etc. but they are so worth all the the struggles and hardships at the end of the day!

[mightymouse32]

Agreed :) ! Amen

[Rubysf]

So true!

[jetbprincess]

Yep i agree

[AHHHpenguins]

Finally! Someone says something! It honestly makes me sick when girls think that way :/

[Bnl1024]

Haha so true and  i completely understand. yes i'm a young soon to be mom. I'm 22 and my husband is 23. We don't use the government for anything. And him and his ex have a son together she tried trapping him. Thinking a kid would make things better with them. If you don't stop cheating what makes you think thing will ever change lol. But now we're having to pay 750$ a month in child support because of another  one of them immature girls that think that a kid will fix things.... ugh i had to vent on that one!!! Sorry!

[DelainaN]

Hahaha oh I feel ya, were paying $2200 a month for one child because the b!tch refuses to get a job and in co they go off your income .... It's a load of sh!t

[Bnl1024]

Yes she was trying to get 1000 from us. Which is very possible because of his income. we already pay 390$$ month for school 160$ insurance and 200$ cash a month. she only makes 8.00$ a hour so thats another reason she could get more $$$ from us..

[DelainaN]

What a *****!

[Mandatace]

Add to that the people who want kids and would make fantastic parents but can't have any! At least not without spending a lot of $$$$. Me and my husband tried for 5 years to fall pregnant with our first and this one took 4 years of trying to conceive. Gets my blood boiling when I see kids neglected and mistreated simply because they are in the way or are an interruption on thier parents lives!

[mummyemma]

I'm only 18 years old, I have 2 beautiful kids, I'm married to an older man but I don't care about the age aslong as my children are loved cared for and don't want for nothing, I had a S**T childhood, I used to get beat a lot, I have 6 bros and sis's and they never got beat just me..my mum ran away with another man and my dad stared drinking and being violent The amount of times I've stood infront of him stopping him hitting my little bro and I got a punch but I didn't care at the time because my bros and siss were my priority..I had to grow up quick, cooking roasts at 12years old, bathing my bros and siss getting them up for school cheering them up when there hurt or upset,washing there clothes basically being a mum to them,I stopped going to school so I could look after my dad(cook his breakfast iron his cloths run the bath) before he went to the pub,  and clean the house go shopping and prep the kids teas anyway I'm glad I was brought up the way I was because I wouldn't be the mum I am today. But I wouldn't wish the way I was brought up on anyone not even my worst enemies. And my dad when to prison in November so I was looking after my bros and sisters and social servises took them into care and I'm not even aloud to see them, and it kills me because I don't class them as my brothers and sisters there MY KIDS..anyway some young mums are great mums.. And I wouldn't let any MAN OR WOMAN come between me and my KIDS not even my dad :D but I do agree with every word you have said