@figaro08j And you know her back story??????
Women post on here for advice not to be criticized for the decisions they make. You can't post on her comment saying "she knew what she was doing" when she didn't even ask for a negative comment like that. She's a grown woman and ovbiously knew what she was doing she was just concerned thats all. You may have not thought that your comment was negative but in other people's eyes it was a negative comment. It's a little childish to say "you live for this" too. Just because she didn't ask for advice before making the decision of having sex with her husband does not mean she wasnt concerned before the fact.
I'd be more worried about how fertile you are after giving birth...
I agree ^^ how fertile you are and stitches if any...if your good on those 2 things then just be careful from now on.
Your fine honey I agree with^^^ watch for infection know your body but you should be more concerned about getting preggo..lol I had sex at 3 weeks had pain at first then nothing but everyone is different..didn't end up pregnant till my baby was 6 months.. Don't feel bad Hun a lot of moms don't wait the 6 weeks we are adults and make our own choices forget what others think
Is it still hurting after intercourse? If not give it some time. Soak in a bath of warm water and Epsom salt for the next couple of days.
did you have c section or vag delivery? any stitches? that's the only thing i would worry about.it's gonna be uncomfortable for while even after the 6 week wait.
What's done is done. U knew there where risk. U should have waited :/
I am 6 weeks and 3 days pregnant and I weighed 125 when I first found out I was pregnant and went too the doctors 2 days ago I was 128 & now here today and I am 130 I am a first mom what should I do too keep my weight low :/
You should be fine but keep a look out for signs of infection. I know its tempting but its important to refrain from sex so that we don't get more hurt down there. We truly do need time to heal after birth. Your body just pushed out a watermelon and had went thru so much. What I always do for my husband is take care of him to help ease the 6 weeks since it's kinda long for him to wait. We are sensitive down there and you don't want to cause a post partum hemorrhage or infection. Everything needs time to repair itself. Plus with all the bleeding its kinda yucky. If anything I'd wait to have intercourse until at least the 4 week mark. That's a lot safer than 2 weeks. Imagine if you got pregnant literally right after you gave birth? Your uterus hasn't even fully shrank back down to original size yet. Plus the longer you wait to do it, the more passionate and fun it'll be for both of you when the time does come. Best if luck to you. Don't be too scared. Just pay really close attention to your lochia and pay attention for signs of infection.
Yes I had vaginal delivery and I got a few stitches nothing major. No I am no longer hurting after this morning. It just something I felt like I couldn't wait for
I think your fine:) just pay attention to your body.
I told him after this time we had to wait foreal but what should ii be concerned about
I don't like that first comment you said get the **** off her post with you negative comments of course she knew the risk ..all she is asking is for advice and to talk about the situation stupid female dog..you must have a ton a regrets in your life and be miserable.. Do you think that she wanted to read some **** like that after her post?gtfoh with that ****[email protected]
Thank you for that!! babyIvy_42715
I agree with babyivy_427515. Reading negative posts like that when you're concerned or anxious about something isn't called for. Support, understanding, and facts are way more helpful than the first post. Realistically I've never waited the full 6 weeks.
Nobody knows your body better than you. And if you feel fine, you're more than likely fine! Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not waiting. But be careful :) I honestly don't know if I can wait the 6 weeks after either haha
Your welcome ladies figaro0j needs to have several seats with her negativity Wonder if that's how she does her kids when they make a mistake...smh
Lmao. Ya'll funny! But i love when yall have something to say about my comment. If ya'll knew her back story ya'll would know she ask the question before even having sex, now she want concern. Thanks guys, i live for thi.
Sometimes is hard specialy for our hubby but it is to soon..we always wait till 40 dayslike gragrandma's recoment
Lmao. I love it. And yes i do know her back story. She posted a question before even having sex with her husband and alot of people aaid wait. And she didn't. I gave my advice as well. I find it funny that am getting more attention the her on her own question. Move around.