Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
14869466 tn?1447439017

I just need a few words of encouragement?

The father of the bby girl I'm currently carrying was taken into jail today. I was taking it easy at first not realising how bad of a situation that we're both in... Especially because he won't be here to see her born and it's our first daughter. I'm trying my best to keep my head up and to stay strong for the well being of myself and our bby but I can see that it's not going to be easy, because we're so closely bonded and we have a good relationship. He has no one but me and everything is really hitting me all at once right now. Please keep me in your prayers. My name is Tashi and I'm naming our daughter Jaslynn. Pray for us please... Thank you <3
8 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Greetings Tashi!!!

First I want to say congrats on your addition. Im just going to try to give you a different perspective. I want to say I was ashamed and embarrassed because I thought I was the only one going through a situation like this. I'm going on 35 weeks I'm also expecting my first child who is a girl I'm naming her Xiana Arielle. My child's father is my best friend. He was locked up in may somewhere around my 9 or 10 wks mark. He never got to see the ultrasound or me get any bigger. Our daughter is due right after Christmas. He won't be home though until February. Because right now its not looking like they'll parole him. I've been through the crying and anger which I believe does nothing but anger my baby and cause her to ball up. (They can feel what we feel for sure) he won't be able to see her born but I do have my sisters coming to see me and be of support I will be recording my birth so he knows exactly what happened when he comes home because sometimes letters just don't do it. He writes me all the time and calls me at least once every day which makes me feel better. Ironically, Xia kicks a lot of times when I'm otp with him. I just want to let you know you aren't the only one and things like this happen for a reason even if we don't know why yet. You have to keep your spirits up and keep pushing forward. I'm always here to talk to if you'd like to email me sometime its ***@**** don't give up keep pushing forward!
Helpful - 2
1 Comments
Thank you... I'm feeling a little better since I've spoke to him just a few minutes ago. He doesn't sound like he's losing his mind so that puts me at ease. I'm keeping him in my prayers and hoping for the best because I do need him and I can't see your email lol.
Avatar universal
I am going through the exact same thing. The father of my first unborn baby girl was taken to jail and is looking at 5 years or more.  I will have to go through Everything alone and is also facing eviction.  At times I cried myself to sleep because instead of bed g happy with such a blessing I am so stressed that I neglected myself and my unborn. I am so sorry you are going through this also.  But I will keep you in my prayers
Helpful - 1
Avatar universal
I'm so sorry. Please find people to surround you with support and care.
Helpful - 1
14346590 tn?1451854557
Im sorry! I know it has to be hard because even though my husband gets on my last nerve sometimes I can't imagine what it would be like to not have his support or have him around while I'm pregnant. Everything will be okay just pray for peace and try to not get to upset if you can. Everything will work out.
Helpful - 1
1 Comments
Thank you
Avatar universal
Awwwwww it's ok... everything happen for a reason. Y'all will be okay
Helpful - 1
1 Comments
Thank you
14869466 tn?1447439017
Thank you!
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
You're in my prayers
Helpful - 0
14869466 tn?1447439017
Your situation sounds like it's worse than mine and I can imagine being alone for as long as 5yrs. I feel even worse for you and I'll keep you in my prayers as well.
Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Social Community

Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.