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I need advice...

Hello. My name is Delya, I am a mother to an 11 month old baby boy, and I am about a month pregnant(ijust found iut)... well anyways ever since about 2 months after I had my first baby, me and my Fiancé have been fighting..., not physically, but I yell at him sometimes to help me with stuff or I get really angry at him. He sits there and plays his game or doesn't help at all. It really pisses me the **** off... yes, he works and he provides for the baby, but he doesnt help me directly. He doesn't make me feel beautiful the way he used to. I miss it sk much. I just want everything tk be good again.... I've been really depressed lately, my mom kicked me out, im trying to finish school, I had to move back in with him and his parents and his sisters who hate me (but thankfully the sisters are moving) and I just found out km pregnant... im just stressed.... and he doesnt help or listen, he just calls me a "big baby" or says something rude. Why is he acting like this.? I try and be an awesone fiancée and be nice but all this stress and stuff going on and it makes me burst out in anger. I think I might need proffesional help.... I want to be a good mom and good wife but how if I don't feel loved anymore.?,... please help.... have any of you guys experienced this.? Any advice on how to make him feel more comfortable or help him be nicer.??...
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he's not the one that needs to be acting.like the baby. he needs to set aside his toys an help you. guys really don't understand what happens during pregnancy. have a serious talk with him. he needs to man up for you an your babies sake. be very serious with him.
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You need to sit with your fiance and asked him why he treats you this way. Maybe he is getting pressure from his mom and its affecting him so he lashes out at you. Also, speak to his mom and she what she can do to help you guys resolve your issues. If she does nothing then you know also its time to move out. She should care enough to help
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Maybe if u guys got ur own house it wudnt b soo stressful maybe he has his mom in one ear complaining nd then u in the other .. so I wud tell him its time to save for an apt or house sumin of yalls own then maybe it wud b less stressfull
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