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need help , please advise

I'm 26 weeks will be 27 weeks Friday but long story short I've had this feeling in my stomach that my bf has been seeing someone else. Everytime I call him it's always a problem & I seem to be always bothering him when all I try to do is keep him updated on our son & myself as well since I've been having alot of pain lately. Just not to long ago I checked one of his social networks I usually don't do that but something told me to... & guess what I found that he's been commenting on this girl picture asking for her number, when are they going out & calling her sexy. Seeing that really hurt my feelings cause I try my best to be there for him..idk what to do or even how to feel ,I'm just so hurt right now & really needs some words of encouragement
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Thanks you all, everything was just happening at once but I will make sure to stay strong & positive for my baby
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Don't overwhelm yourself, enjoy your pregnancy  to the fullest,you deserve better GBY
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10533493 tn?1411088519
Same thing was happening to me , when I wasn't with my baby daddy my stomach would hurt like if my baby was trying to tell me something and when he would be with me it wouldn't hurt , then later on I got on his Facebook and turns out he was doing the exact same thing talking to all these girls /: I know how you feel , all you need to do is stay strong and try not to get things to you because it's bad for your baby . Talk to your baby , read to your baby sing to your baby (: stay happy .
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Thanks I expressed my feelings to him one to many times before this isn't the only thing he has done. He still texts females but tries to hide it but I already seen it & know. I've even talked to some of the girls he has texted or called. One day I overheard him on the phone telling a female it could've been her. What hurts me the most is he claims he's madly in love with me & our son but those actions clearly doesn't show. Part of me wants to leave & part of me wants to stay because I do love him we're each others first & have been together since, it's going on 8 years in January. He's 21 & I'll be 20 next month @hellojojo2200
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8654668 tn?1412565128
Oh...and dont feel bad about snooping..if u think there's something going on.that's fishy.I say snoop till I know whats going on for sure...and let ur mind at ease...u deserve 2 kno!! And if snooping is the way 2 do it..well so b it..
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8654668 tn?1412565128
Im sorry hun...thatz not right even if thats all thats going on its crossing the line..most of the time our.gut feelings r correct in those situations...but dont jump 2 conclusions...maybe.do a lil.more investigation...u have every reason 2 b suspicious...and if he is cheating...7 dont deserve that!!! Any man who would do that 1 their pragnant gf is not a man at all...u deserve someone who u can trust and who will treat u like a princess and give u and ur baby all their love...and u will..even id it turnz out not 2 b ur current bf... u should talk 2 him and tell him that u feel like hes not paying enough attention 2 u..and u need him more than evr right now...and tell him ur suspicions...see how he reacts...im so sorry u have 2 go thru this..I cant imagine.hownthat must feel while.pregnant....the good news is u will.b ok!! U r a strong woman and when it comes down 2 it all u need is u ur strenth and ur baby...good luck I hope it all turns out 4 tje best
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