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Just venting

So I'm 37 weeks with my first (a babygirl) and I would just like to say I don't know if its just because I'm so close to delivery day or what but I seem to be real emotional lately. Like i just feel like everything gets to me and I wana cry.Like now I'm mad because my bf Is out wit his friends and not here.. ( I finished thanksgiving dinner and he isn't here..) but he txted me and told me he would be back in a lil and I'm slick kinda in my feelings and want to cry because he just leFt.. Knowing I cooked for him and his kids who are over here for the week.. I wound up eating by myself and feeding and bathing them... I feel like I'm over reacting though and its crazy cause I never want to cry over things like this.. Is it just the hormones going all over the place?
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Come on girls dont make her feel worse....im 37 weeks too and over reacting to everything...of course those are his kids but come on let him take a breath nothing would happen cuz he is with friends a lit...mans can get psico and scared about life too.It gonna be so much better if you take a deep breath and relax..i understand everything about you cooking and bla bla bla but think..if you get really mad and start craying and make big deal about this it would help you??It would be good for your baby???do you really need start a fight??i guess no honey so my advice is relax and maybe after when you dont fell mad or sad can talk with him about this...believe me i have been taking things to far with my husband and my son and im so sorry now there is too many families suffering cuz they lost members so i decided control my hormons and be happy...i encourage you to do same...sending u love.
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Girl those are his kids. He needs to be responsible for them. If his kids are over for a week, he needs to spend time with his kids not his friends. There are exceptions for instance, it is black Thursday and Friday, so he might be Christmas Shopping but he should work that out with you ahead of time. Then you would know what you are getting into.
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I totally agree with the previous comment. Even if I wasn't pregnant I would not be okay with my husband leaving me to eat alone on thanksgiving. Especially if I cooked the meal for him and his kids! Then again everyone's relationship is different and what works for you guys might not work for me and my husband ..
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Well being pregnant gets our emotions all over the place but to be honest even if i wasnt pregnant i think id be bothered if my husband would leave knowing i cooked for him and specially cus thanksgiving is a family day but thats just me...
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Is this the one whom cheated and gave you a STD  just a week ago??
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It's not the pregnancy or the hormones your bf is just plain wrong in my opinion. On thanksgiving he does not need to be out with friends from my view especially if his Kids are there too. Try not to stress , relax. He's the one missing out not you.
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