I don't get it I just dont????

[erika0013]

Why do men's cheat on ther wifes or grilfriend while there pregnant like for reals like I been reading alots of woman saying that..... and it happend to me I mean if they dint won't something serious why they stay at in a relashinship they should of walk out of it i meam or use protection I'm just curious I want to know why.?????

[aicnov14]

I don't understand it either. I have honestly given up on believing that the man I'm with will always be faithful, I expect **** to hit the fan at some point and I'm just preparing myself to handle it with some dignity.

[erika0013]

I just think its stupid for guys to do that like seriously I mean if the don't want to have kidz they sould say and not act like they do want kidz mean why would they want babys to suffer not having a dad in there life.... and the point the gets me more mad is when you talk to them an ask them if they want kids or sometime there the ones who soposly want to have kids and what happens all of the suden you get pregnant and the cheat on you I mean what's the freken point..... destroying a babys life in way that they won't have there father and mother together
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[iamirsmom]

Wow my situation is so similar except the father of my child doesnt want to be accountable for his actions and always talks about getting over tgat and moving on, but how can you get over something we can never discuss.

[mommynikol3]

My oldest kids father is the one who wanted to start a family and have kids. Then proceed to cheat on me while I was pregnant and decided he wasn't ready for parenthood after our son was born ! I've been a single mom for over 3 yrs ! I am now pregnant with baby number 3 (new guy) and I broke up with him when I found out cause I couldn't bare the pain if he were to ever hurt me. He comes to every appt and everything we do or buy is 50/50. He refuses to even try to be with another girl because he says I am the mother of his child. It's crazy how different men can be ! But so much probs for the good men out there !

[iamirsmom]

I am close to my dad and 4 brothers, they are all in relationships and cheat. I ask them why some say for the thrill, sometimes they are bored, sometimes their inner selves want someone sleazy. But my dad always says he cant answer that its just something men do and when they get caught they lie to cover their ***** and to receive forgiveness. Just sad.

[miracle_mommy2014]

Cause guys are heartless 95% of the time and they don't think! There are some good guys not all are bad. But not every girl gets a good guy that is honest and faithful who does lie and cheat and those girls don't understand. But yeah some guys just su ck and they do stupid things. I personally believe in communication and what not and I believe if your not happy in a relationship then just leave I don't think cheating is the answer either. Just causes more problems and more heartbreak!

[LyakGarcia]

Not everybody is the same, some man cheat some dont, sopa are good fathers some are not, some care some dont, some want to be like they were still in college, it may have to do with mommy /daddy issues, past relationships, sex addicts, who knows, women do it too, and im proof of that, i just didn't care for anyone, i didn't care that they cried, if they begged, to me it was like dealing with a kid that you dont know or care for in a candy store when you dont have any money, begging to get something, i wasnt looking for somebody, just anyone who caught my eye, if i got bored i left, until one night i saw this guy just jogging and i fell in love, i didn't care to turn and look at the other guys, even a lazy night in was fun with him, i didnt mind the arguing, ever, or the fact that i wasn't going to touch anyone ever again, i was for the first time looking towards forever, peple change, and im sorry for all the people who get cheated on or lied to or with a partner who simply doesnt care, many times they dont want to change or unconsciously are not ready to change, i didnt feel sorry when it happened, but when i met my husband i did, now i pray everyday to God he doesn't punish me with the same rock.