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Put yourself in this situation & Reply .....
Put yourself in this situation & Reply .....I would really like to see someone's else point of view to this .
What would you do if you told the guy you had sex with that you are pregnant and he's the father but he doubted your word and didn't believe you the child is his? (Mind you, you never been in an actual relationship with this guy, it was a moment thing) anyways... then that guy goes and blocks you from every media Site you had communication with him and few months later you see one of his male cousins and male friend is sending you a Friend request? Wouldn't that make you think he's a bit curious in the low? Lol pathetic but makes you wonder.....and what if after you give birth he tries to reach out to you....would you let him ?
What would you do if you told the guy you had sex with that you are pregnant and he's the father but he doubted your word and didn't believe you the child is his? (Mind you, you never been in an actual relationship with this guy, it was a moment thing) anyways... then that guy goes and blocks you from every media Site you had communication with him and few months later you see one of his male cousins and male friend is sending you a Friend request? Wouldn't that make you think he's a bit curious in the low? Lol pathetic but makes you wonder.....and what if after you give birth he tries to reach out to you....would you let him ?
No matter how big of a jerk he is now he is the father and if he wants to be in the baby's life you have to allow that. Babies have a way of changing people. Be hopeful and open minded. He MAY surprise you.
I'm kinda in this situation the father of my child is saying that it isn't his and is telling all his friends that we both know that we never had sex and when I found out that I'm having a boy he messaged my best friend curious about the sex of the baby
OK but would you still allow it if you guys were together for 4 months but it was actually 2 Bc he started talking to his ex then he changed up, sleeping seperate rooms, there's no communication, after talking with his ex. Claiming you don't do anything Bc your the one who supports the family, and he never had a job. After he leaves to get rest of stuff from different state, finding out he is with ex and week later your pregnant with his child. But claim the baby not his don't want nothing to do with you or the baby until you give birth so he can get a DNA to show if it's his then he threatens you are going to loose the child? This is what I went through I am now 14+3 and I've raised my other 2 kids just fine with out the father around... And I'm planning on do the same way this one, no one on his side of family going to know I had the baby... My thing is when I told you, you doubted the child, you wasn't there for support made me go through it alone, so why should I give you the opportunity after I have the baby.... If you don't care now you won't care for child well being except to use for money for your own pleasure.....?
This happened with my daughter. We were only together for a month and I found out I was pregnant. He wanted me to get an abortion and when I didn't, he made every attempt to make my life miserable when I was pregnant, including saying it wasn't his. Fast forward to two months after the birth, we take a DNA test (for his sake) and she is his, so he's put on child support. I was skeptical about him getting to take her at first because that's the protective mom that I am, but he is the FATHER of my child and nothing can change that. It doesn't matter how much you may dislike him, you shouldn't stop him from seeing the child Both of you created. End of story. Not to mention it is illegal anyway. My daughter is now 5 yrs old and has a great relationship with her dad and his family. We've even come around to be amicable for her sake, especially now that I'm married and expecting my second child. I wasn't going to rob my daughter of a relationship that is rightfully hers and neither should you.
Either way a child still needs his father for numerous things, his genetics, what diseases he needs to look for in not only himself but his future kids, and it's nice to know his blood and the person he came from rather they give them or you a golden plater! Shame on some of the women who commented NO bc it makes you a bit selfish, and you should NEVER take it out on the fathers family, it is not their fault!! Becoming a parent is VERY scary and some people just don't know how to emotionally prepare for it so they close their door, and a lot of men who don't exactly pay may make up for it in their time, pennys don't mean a thing but a heart does!! Why worry about possessions that don't mend the soul? My husband didn't know who his dad was until he was 6 and wouldn't you know all his mom was worried about was collecting checks and pushed his fathers relationship further bc of his own selfish mistakes and he promised his son it would never happen to him, and he is a better man bc of it!!
If he were to reach out I might allow it but with certain conditions attached. Yes his reaction to the news of you being pregnant was terrible however he might be feeling some regret/guilt about that now. I would give him one chance to be part of the baby's life... And if he's not supporting the baby at that point just cut all ties & move on.
Never. Keep him out and away. You don't need that.
I would not allow him to be involved with the child. He didn't believe or try to see the possibility of it being his. But now since the child is born he wants to see and be involved. Sounds like he wants to use the child for looks not love.
I would not allow him to be involved with the child. He didn't believe or try to see the possibility of it being his. But now since the child is born he wants to see and be involved. Sounds like he wants to use the child for looks not love.
definately not
He would be out of my child's life. And i wouldn't accept no friend requests from no one who knows him.
I was put in this situation with my oldest son. I filed for child support and we did a dna test because he denied him. I regret that now because he has to pay child support which is good but I hardly receive it. He gets my son every sunday which makes me lose 10 hrs with him. My son's has been in baseball he never went to 1 game and now he started kindergarten and he didn't buy him clothes or school supplies my husband did. I wish I would of just let it be because my son doesn't need him and he calls my husband dad
No way, he will completely out of my baby life...
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