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So emotional over something idk

So i have to decide to get fixed or not i have 3 kids this will make my 4th anyone else having issues with choosing
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Im definitely getting my tubes tied after this one . You just know when you have enough . If your not sure  i would wait on it . Me and hubbs both agreed 5 is plenty. So we both are getting fixed for extra protection lol.
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im on the same boat as you im expecting my 4th child in 3 weeks and dont know of i should get tubes tied or not -.-
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It would be better if your husband or boyfriend got a vasectomy, it only takes about 3 days to recover and is 99% effective and there is less of a chance of his stuff reconnecting than yours. Women have a much longer recovery and more of a chance of your tubes reconnecting and becoming pregnant. You need to really think about it though because if you decide later on that you want another baby it will be expensive for either one of you and it might not even work. Maybe you should talk to people who have gotten it and make your decision because you could possibly end up regretting it.
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Don't get your tubes tied u will regret it if later u choose to have more or rather its not guaranteed but the depo shot is think about it
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If your not sure, I wouldn't get it done. Maybe get depo or something else.
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This is my 4th and I'm scared. We have had 2 beautiful pregnancies and I'm scared that this is a bad idea. Idk. I need help deciding
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plz don't take depo that ain't nothing but toxic i have read more bad on that than you can imagine, im not tying my tubes but i do need birth control, so im gonna go with the paraguard which is a non hormoanal copper iud i read alot of good things about it hardly any bad the ratings are really good on it, but if your not sure what to do you shoud wait till your absolutely sure.
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This is my fourth pregnancy and I'm getting my tubes tied
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