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[aclockworkjenna]

So I was wondering if going to the dang doctor every single month is really necessary? I know my baby is already healthy and I just feel its wasting my time. Does anyone not see there doctor every month? Or is this every dang doctor?!

[Saralynn143]

K sweetie.

[aclockworkjenna]

You ladies are so sad. You all need help hahahah

[Saralynn143]

Watch out she might say your not pregnant either & flip out on you for having an opinion & talk garbage about your unborn baby..

[diachong]

Wow you really blamed women for having miscarriages. Saying it's a woman's fault for getting negative outcomes because they're stressing out is messed up. What's wrong with you? I had a healthy pregnancy too last year. I knew my body and knew my baby was doing fine. I was extremely positive, I had no negative thoughts about my pregnancy, and I still had a miscarriage. But according to you it's my fault I had a miscarriage, right? You're a horrible person. How could a woman say that to other  women, especially when they're pregnant? The reason you have appointments every month is to make sure you and your baby are fine. That's not thinking negatively that's called being smart. Maybe you think it's a waste of time going to the appointments but I love hearing my baby's heartbeat.

[Saralynn143]

K you wanna be a *****?? Huh? Sitting behind a screen talking **** on someone you dont even know. I got my high school diploma & proud of it. Really? I moved to 655 mason street Niles Ohio 44446, white house with a garage & a pool, & Ive been with my boyfriend since March 19th 2013. So keep running your false facts  Your a ******* *******!!! Keep talking **** behind a screen, I'll sit here & laugh. Talk about my baby? K well see what happens to you you ignorant *****. Keep my legs closed? Um you wouldn't be pregnant if you didn't open yours. Lol! Your immature. (; I think you need to shut the hell up & be a mom.

[Takeiyah_]

Thank you and I wish you luck also :)

[sarjaxmar]

Well good luck with the pregnancy hope it gets better and yes your appointments will end up being two weeks apart and become one week apart until baby is born. I couldn't wait to find out the sex too

[sarjaxmar]

Similac.  Yes it's expensive I just save up, and spend my tax return on lots of New born and size one diapers as well. Luckily wic helps a little with formula. Even if they didn't I'd still bottle feed. Breast feeding is a little less expensive but it's not for everyone.
The morning sickness might go away.  It did around 20-22 weeks for me. I got a little more energy back, but now starting to drag again.  With the back pain and always so much to do. I'm also experiencing heartburn.  I'll take it over morning sickness though. As long as you try to stay active in the later months and don't over eat you can maintain some comfort.

[aclockworkjenna]

Ahhhh yoga sounds wonderful right now! Hehe thank you!

[aclockworkjenna]

Well maybe I should get a mid wife instead because its just to hard going every dang month for me yes. Well thank you!!! See that's how I feel I know my body. If I felt something were wrong I would go see my doctor. But every month is just crazy to me! Thank you!

[aclockworkjenna]

Awe you got a cute little girl! How exciting! I hope I have a girl. I know so many people say they want one thing and get the other but are still so happy! Thank you so much hehe I can't wait! 35 days!! Yay!! That's awesome I have to many haha like 100 something haha. I feel like its already dragging! I wish you the best of luck too thank you!!!!

[jennymeaney]

This is my third and im in the uk. I have an appointment with my midwife every couple of months. It will get a bit more frequent closer to my due date but right now suits me just fine. To be quite honest it wud be a bit of a pain goin so often. I know my body and if I feared something was wrong then there are facilities to get everthing checked. I think its a bit harsh for people to jump down ur throat for making a comment.x

[tswilson3]

children, children. this is not Facebook. this is for pregnancy tracking and helping each other. if you don't have anything nice to say, just move along. I'm kinda giggling at these pregnancy hormone crazies going on. its necessary to go just to make sure everything is still in order. yes you know your body, but your body can do weird things in pregnancy. and EVERY pregnancy is different. EVERY mother is different. and we should be spreading joy, not hate. so stop with the anger, do yoga. peace ladies!

[aclockworkjenna]

Thank you so much! Right its not like money is grown off of trees I mean gas is expensive just like you said and pregnancy for me hasn't been fun at all I've been sick every single day. I just couldn't believe what other moms say haha its funny but sad at the same time we are all woman we are Kent to have babies so why can't that be something that brings us together. This is my first post too!!!   I knew I shouldn't have tried to get answers from here haha. So much negative. Its sad. Well I'm glad I am talking to someone who understands thank you so much. Oh man I hope the breast feeding works for me cause ahh that formula is outrageous. What kind do you use if I do have to use it. My mom says simalac but that's like the most costly haha. Thank you so much for the wonderful feed back.

[sarjaxmar]

Haha,auto correct fail. AnywAys like I said, dont let these girls work you up and get you to post out of control because of anger. They are being nasty, it's rude. You have every right to not like the appointments. Pregnancy is a lot of work. Just keep in mind your little one will be born soon, and always go with your best judgment. Don't ever let people put you down like they are trying on here, ignore the nasty comments and laugh that they are so up tight

[Takeiyah_]

Lol yes it slows down as you get closer.  Im now at 35 days and 35 weeks today and I tell ya it freakin DRAGS at the end ;( lol but I wish you the best of luck and hope you get what you want,  I wanted a boy and got a girl instead but now I'm just happy that I made it this far and bby is healthy X)

[aclockworkjenna]

Really!? I have herd so many stories of the doctor being wrong like that haha. I would be so sad if that were to happen. I would love to find out now! Both my cousins went to fetal photo and were told with all their kids and the doctor was right and they were15 weeks like me! I want to know so I can start buying hehe. I just get so happy when I see baby stuff I swear I go somewhere everyday just to look! And I'm not far along at all. Thank you so much! Maybe I should do both just in case your right haha I don't wanna buy girl stuff and it be a boy not fun haha

[sarjaxmar]

I agree with you it's a waste of my time as well. I have a 2.5 year old so it's difficult dragging him along to every appointment. I now have to visit every two weeks, the visits last ten mins and gas isn't cheap. Don't listen to to negative people on here, some women can be so stuck up. I couldn't breast feed my first son because of of anxiety, you should have heArd the things most women like these girls said to me. Some people just think they are better then you and it will always be that way. I don't like pregnancy because it's a lot of work and I don't like slowing down. Don't get me wrong very excited for baby, but I can't wait for this to over And I'm bot going to apologize for that.  I also don't plan on breast feeding this baby either, my boyfriend and I liked how smooth bottle feeding formula went so going to repeat. People that font like that only say negative things because they think they know it all and that they are better then me. I think it makes them have an ugly personality so I just laugh it off. People need to be a lot less judgmental!

[aclockworkjenna]

Well thank you! Yeah I just don't feel pregnant at all I mean I have morning sickness all day but I bet your right about finding out the sex. Im sure I'll be a lot more excited once I do find out! You couldn't find out until then! Ahhhh boo haha I don't want to wait that long it seems like forever away. Thank you so much! :)

[lex_1238_789203]

I kind of like going but then I don't I don't feel my baby move a hole lot at almost 27 weeks so sometimes that scares me because I had problems early on but it will stink going every 2 weeks and then one week and Ya waiting to,have an ultrasound to find out the sex until your like 18 weeks is long but it's better to wait till around then or even 20 becAuse there more positive that's wat the baby is sometimes if you go early they tell you one thing and then it's not right it happened to my friend n they bought a bunch of girl stuff and when the baby was born it was a boy

[Takeiyah_]

I understand the pain now that I go every week and the snow is awful here in Chicago.  But yes it used to make me mad that I get my blood drawn and weighed  and then sent home but now that im in my 3rd trimester and I'm also high risk they monitor me weekly with non stress tests and ultrasounds EVERY WEDNESDAY. It's worth it because I get to see my daughter :) maybe it'll get better once you know what your having because that's how it was for me also for your other question my doctor made me wait til week 22 to find out the gender. It's totally worth the wait and it's more accurate so I say you should try to wait til your 20 weeks.  

[LyakGarcia]

Wow, i wonder who the kid is here.

[aclockworkjenna]

I will say as I please. Don't like it get the **** off the page then. I don't need all this negative energy. Hope you all have wonderful healthy babies. Live and learn hahahhahahha

[aclockworkjenna]

You sad sad little girl. I bet your not even pregnant. You know you don't have a house or a man or a baby with that sad attitude. And its sad if you are pregnant because your baby will come out with a bad attitude as well we can all tell you're not pregnant so whatever so keep being the little girl that you are and keep your legs closed stay school in might be a little bit better for you. you might actually learn something if your legs wernt  always  open. I love good karma thank you!