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Ughhhhh!!!!

Ok I get Effin get it I'm fat !!!! If one more person calls me fat Ima explode !!!! Can someone please tell me what to say to the next person who calls me fat without me being too disrespectful??
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Yea I even had someone tell
Me to stay away from food :(
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That's so rude! People are so bold and stupid!
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Yea u guys are right I guess Peopel are Just use to me having a flat stomach before pregnancy that now when they see me they get shocked how big I've gotten and it makes me angry how everyone automatically assumes I eat too much which it's not true I even ask myself where is all this weight coming from bc I barely eat
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973741 tn?1342342773
I like to kill with kindness.  You could say "oh, I'm sure you didn't mean to insult me just now but you DO know I'm pregnant, don't you? "  OR "You DO know I'm pregnant right?  Well, you know pregnant ladies have lots of hormones and we could blow up . . .   AND we are a little sensitive . . .   so calling a pregnant woman fat is a little dangerous . . .   I'm just saying" again said with a big smile, tongue in cheek.

Then they just look like a jerk and you haven't made yourself look like a crazy pregnant woman by calling names or losing your temper.  You just let them know in a subtle, good natured way that they said something rude.

Hang in there, I'm sure you are beautiful as pregnant women ARE beautiful!
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Everyone calls me chunky and fat but I just go yeah I'm pregnant so what
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I had a dream once, and it told me what to say to anyone who tries to bring me down.

"I am married/getting married to my best friend, who is also the father of my unborn child which I'm carrying. And you have what going for you? Your a certain weight? Well good for you dear."
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You're right next person I will tell them they're an idiot Ima say at least I can get rid of fat and u can't get rid of your ugly face idc anymore Ima tell the next Person off & I've gained 17 lbs so far idk what they Gona say when I gain more lll
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7998970 tn?1435183202
Tell them they're idiots, obviously you're going to gain weight while carrying a baby, common sence, it's mean to call someone fat when they're pregnant, so why not give them the answer they're looking for?
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Yes most definitely it's all worth it all for my baby girl I know weight is something i can get rid of its just I've had weight problems my whole life and they don't make it any better
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13991067 tn?1466609146
Dont worry too much about what people think
Im not even fat and people will still tell me omg youve gain so much & i just ignore it cus i know all this extra lbs are worth it for my babygirl❤:)
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I said that to my bf family and his sister was like yea that's what pregnant girls say as an excuse wtf smh
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I say I'm pregnant. So yeah I'm fat. Don't let people know it gets to you
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Started calling me beautiful, hot & etc and I can't wait to have my baby to shut everyone up !!! And omg that's sooo mean of your husband !!! Mines tells me I'm sexy and beautiful all the time even tho I know deep sown inside he knows I've gained a lot but as long as he keeps it to himself idc and omg I just can't believe your husband !!! Smhhh that's sad !!
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Being called fat now that I'm pregnant brings sooo memoriess of when I was a little fat girl and always got called fat and all that people motivated me to become veryyy skinny no one could believe the transformation I went thru than Everyone
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No one calls me fat but my husband it's so disrespectful. I'm pregnant too and he does it out of spite and hate. He doesn't love me for the person I am he doesn't care if he hurts my feelings and it's truly sad. I ignore him but for you I would tell them do you not understand that I'm pregnant regardless I'm going to gain weight that i can't help.
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