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anyone being stared at?

I have gotten stared at twice now in restaurants by other middle aged women. Im 24, so I dont look like a teen mom
...normal size for my pregnancy...28 weeks...nothing abnormal to stare at me for, and twice now women around the age of 45 who are with their families eating at a nearby table just STARE. I mean Full ON STARE. Its so uncomfortable I just want to stand up and say WTF ARE U LOOKING AT ME FOR!! Its so rude!  The first lady looked mean about it and the second just stared and ignored her family. Im not doing anything wrong. Has anyone else gotten plain stared at too? Have u said something? What to do!
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Wow this makes me feel like im not alone. Thanks!
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I always felt like everyone was staring at me. Most of the time they were but I always feel like I'm being looked at. No one ever said anything to me until now.. I am 37 and 3 days so I guess I look like I'm about to pop! I get the congrats now which is nice to hear
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I'm 5"3 and 21 having my son any day now. People stare and make comments all the time. I could care less now.
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I'm 19 but i look even younger and people keep staring at me and exchanging rude comments in public.
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Lol I'm 31 weeks and feel like that too but women don't pay me any attention it's the MEN and they ask question after question. Some are annoying as hell others seem very interested asking every pregnancy question under the sun congratulate me just smiling and smiling and the ones that stare and negative I'm like -_- mind your bizz  you don't know me.
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I was, walking through the store a couple days ago and a women just starred me down and said to the person with her look she has a beach ball in front of her. No **** im 37+5 all belly and boobs lol. It's ok don't let it get to you people are just rude.
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Everyday im 37 weeks and people act like they never seen someone pregnant like fu*K yes im pregnant.No need to fuc*en stare.
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Ugh for me too! I'm 22 but people say I look younger I don't know if it's because of that but I have noticed and it goes for every age group young kids teens old people middle age people everybody I feel like telling thermal if they never seen a pregnant girl or What??!! Gets me sooo mad!
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I've always been stared at. Even before pregnancy, but I just assumed it was because of my tattoos. I wouldn't let it bother me much. Or! You can do what I do and keep steady eye xcontact until they decide to look away, lol works pretty well.
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Ohh yess nd it gets worse as your further in your pregnancy once I hit around 32 weeks I'd even have people telling me your about to pop nd telling me I look so pregnant nd on black Friday I seriously wanted to jst punch someone (39 Weeks at the time).  I understand if you look but there is no reason to be fully staring like there is something wrong.
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