I am going to be a bio mom for the first time in DEC. I have a great friend who volunteered to throw my shower months ago. Which is great for me because I am a social wallflower. But as I just approached 99 days today :) I realize that things are happening very quickly. My friend had originally pick a shower date for the first week of Dec, only problem is during my 25week check up my midwife informed me that they will more likely perform my C-Section in the middle of Dec. Because of my high risk due to fibroids and an abdominal myomectomy I had not to long ago.
Now I wonder about my baby shower. Most of the people i know in my new area work retail and would be a blessing if they could even make it. i am so unsure able everything now. If I should move the date? Will people even show up? What to do? What place to rent? How to pay for this all?
I have prayed and TTC for so long that I never thought I would get to this point and not I am just a ball of raw emotions. Anyone have any advice?