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baby shower

I am going to be a bio mom for the first time in DEC. I have a great friend who volunteered to throw my shower months ago. Which is great for me because I am a social wallflower. But as I just approached 99 days today :) I realize that things are happening very quickly. My friend had originally pick a shower date for the first week of Dec,  only problem is during my 25week check up my midwife informed me that they will more likely perform my C-Section in the middle of Dec. Because of my high risk due to fibroids and an abdominal myomectomy I had not to long ago.

Now I wonder about my baby shower. Most of the people i know in my new area work retail and would be a blessing if they could even make it. i am so unsure able everything now. If I should move the date? Will people even show up? What to do? What place to rent? How to pay for this all?

I have prayed and TTC for so long that I never thought I would get to this point and not I am just a ball of raw emotions. Anyone have any advice?
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Thanks Van818, going to get together with my friend this weekend to work on things
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12861671 tn?1439752639
Move your shower date to earlier so it's not as close to your due date or to Xmas. Nobody will mind as you're giving so much notice. If money is an issue have it on somebody's house and ask people to bring food. Your shower...do what works for you :)
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