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What's everyone's opinion on their partners go I g clubbing while they are pregnant at home ?
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I am married, we have 5 children (gave birth to 6), expecting our 7th. I am 27 years old, my husband is 29 years old. We no longer go to clubs or bars. We grew up and became responsible adults and parents. We have get togethers at our friends homes, family parties, holidays gatherings, ear at restaurants with friends and family etc. I trust my husband and he's very much over any wild life. We got that out and over with before having children. I do not control my husband and neither does he me, he's absolutely allowed to drink at friends homes etc, He's not interested in bars etc.



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My boyfriend and I live together so I see him everyday. Even though I choose not to go out anymore, I don't mind him going out to have some fun and spend time with friends. I just ask that he doesn't get super drunk which he respects.
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Im 23 & i stay home bevause of finances, not to mention finding a babysitter for our 5yr old. When my boyfriend goes out im keeping our son or he goes after work, which is midnight so we're sleep anyways. I also believe pregnancy shouldnt keep you from going out but when you cant afford to, theres nothing you can do.
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I was the DD during my first pregnancy so I went out with him and our friends. Went to the bars, drank water and played pool. Just because you are pregnant doesn't mean you have to stay home all the time. With this pregnancy we both stay home for the most part...but we also have a 3yr old :)
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I'm 19
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Im 25
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If my discs goes with his friends I am fine with it. He always tells me what he's doing and calls me every 15 minutes. Its the females I don't trust because he and his friends did tell me about this one female that kissed him and when I confronted her about it she tried to make it seem like it never happened and she almost got her *** beat by one of our female friends for it. But I really don't worry about anything because he knows his boundaries and he knows if he crosses those boundaries the girls will deal with him.
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How old is everyone in here.
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Who says u ladies have to give up having a life just because of pregnancy.  Call up your friends and hit up the mall or go see a good movie. If u chose to stay home than that's on u. Enjoy ur life pregnancy should cripple u unless u have serious medical reasons
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At first I didn't like my boyfriend going out. I just didn't think it was fair he gets to do everything he wants while I lay at home but then I decided he should go out and have fun while he can because when the baby comes I'm definitely making him stay home (most of the time) to help me out.. He can get it all out of his system now
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10380106 tn?1410962725
My boyfriend  doesn't go out often but when he does it irritates me because i NEVER go anywhere. He goes to bars & sports games every so often, which isn't bad but i feel like crap because i dont work & literally never get out the house. We have a 5yr old already & because I'm not working, money is very tight. But still, he gets to go out whenever he wants, but doesnt think myself or our son needs to go anywhere. I want a pedicure, or to go out to dinner, or to take my son somewhere but no!
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For my bf that's a No. In my opinion if you're not going with your s/o you're going to look/flirt/etc with someone else. At least that's what goes on in any club I've ever been to. It's a personal preference but when men drink they think with their little head not the one on their shoulders. Its other ways to have fun
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My boyfriend doesn't go clubbing, but I tell him not to drink or smoke sense I can't, he shouldn't either. He hasn't been very faithful to me telling him that though, but I do think it's unfair when a guy goes out and had the time of his life when his woman had to take it easy due to the pregnancy. It's not like I planned to get pregnant. I'm only 17 and I go to school everyday nothing else. I used to go out and smoke all day everyday, and now I stay home and take care of myself. Sorry for that mini rant. Guys just really irritate me at times.
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My bf goes out every week but he is here with Monday thru Thurs and ob Sunday. At first it used to bother me but me make sure to call or text to make sure Im okay. But I told him the last 3weeks of the pregnancy he can't go anywhere cuz I don't want to be home alone when I go into labor since my mom won't be in town. I just take that time to get things together for baby and relax.  Cuz all that me time with be over soon. But do y'all ever do anything together like a date night?
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