Aa
feel like crying
I am 17 weeks today my childs father got into an argument over moving his cup and before i knew it we were fighting(playing) until it got serious an he hit me really hard i fought back locked him out the bedroom he used the keys unlock the door and started calling me a dumb ***** and stupid ***** etc . I want to tell him sorry for hitting him but I just think he should be man enough to apologize. Am having his child my family has nothing to do with me because of him and he says all of these to me.I need some advice
Stay with someone just because you are having/have a child together is the worse thing to for you and most importantly your baby. I say give each other some space. Do what is BEST for your little one
Girl im dealing with the same **** right now except he doesn't physically abuse me its mental an emotional not to mention the fact that he chunks **** across rooms an gets in my face, i am so about to be done with it. Neither one of us deserves that **** we're pregnant with their child an they still act like fools what do you think hes gonna do when you have the child do you wnat your kid seeing that **** growing up an thinking its acceptable cause he or she saw mommy an daddy doing it? I know i don't you gotta be selfish for your chid now if not for anything else.
Thongs=things lol
When I finally left he almost stabbed me and tried to rape me. I had to call the police. Don't get to that point
Don't mess with it. I stayed for four years and dealt woth the mental and physical abuse abd have ptsd from it now certain thongs set me off and I shut down. Ky kids say what he did to me and I know ot affected them. I had to join the army to get away from him that's how bad it was.
Get out as fast as you can
Get out as fast as you can
He hit u. Period! Ur pregnant. That is wrong on so many levels I will not count them for u.
However as someone who has been hit by a man let me tell u. If u do not speak to someone now like a councillor. It will escalate. I went from having my arm punch to three yrs later being thrown down a flight of stairs and choked unconscious and on another occasion being hit by a car and left for dead. You need to leave. Or he needs help. Do not wait till its too late
However as someone who has been hit by a man let me tell u. If u do not speak to someone now like a councillor. It will escalate. I went from having my arm punch to three yrs later being thrown down a flight of stairs and choked unconscious and on another occasion being hit by a car and left for dead. You need to leave. Or he needs help. Do not wait till its too late
I've been in a relationship that was abusive. The reason I left him and put his *** in jail was my son. He beat me up in front of my baby! I felt sooo low that I put my child in that situation. His mother kicked us out of her house and everyone from his family was concerned about him being in jail. I was the one who had a busted lip, eye, and bruises all over. Please don't be dumb and stay in a situation that can turn worse!!!
Pleas listen to these ladies. Especially ones who have been there. If I was your friend I would have you living with me, dealing with it together amd getting you back on your feet without him. my hubby has seen his fair share of abuse from his job...dont be another statistic of abuse!
Darling I let someone take.it from mental abuse like that to staying with him for 2 years being physically abused in front of my kids simply because I had a baby with him also. Its not worth the mental abuse your child will witness. As someone who's been there, I say let it go now before things get seriously bad.
If your family has a problem with him amd he hits you...that is completely horrible. Im sorry but you are a grown woman having a child. Do not put that innocent child at risk.you should not be in this situation. Yes there are men who change for the better because they want to change themselves.
Yes i was thats y i wanted to apologize but my feelings is really hurt bout the name calling cause i never did that to him
keeda, this is serious, and it's on both of you.
You weren't "fighting (playing)". You were fighting. Both of you.
You weren't "fighting (playing)". You were fighting. Both of you.
I have been there and the best advice I have for you idk if you are religious or not but my husband has changed so much he asked for forgiveness and I forgave him God has changed him he is so loving and treats me like his princess I will pray for you and your partner that God will descend his glory in your lives stay strong and do apologize and forgive someone has to be mature and you show him that you are going to fight for your relationship because of your child but you also can't do the impossible I wish you the best of luck God bless you
I agree 100%, he is abusive and you should not stay with someone like that, baby daddy or not. That is a very unhealthy relationship..
Never stay with someone who is violent (even playful) if he hurts you and doesn't apologize that's violent. And also never be with someone who has no respect for you. He obviously doesn't since he's calling you bad names. Child's father or not you deserve better.
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