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feeling lonely

I have my partner with me but i still find myself lonley i feel like he doesnt want me next to him or nothing so i keep myself away from him i cry myself to sleep wanting him to be hugging me or something even thoughnhes next to me ahhhh:/
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Wow I can certainly relate to this post I have a boyfriend who spends more time with he's friend then me he looks out for himself more then me he will make sure he has something to eat but never ask me if im hungry and I feel like once my baby gets here in November I will be the one doing everything and I feel like im struggling being with him more then if I was to be by myself all he does is buy beer he doesn't pay the bills I seem to be the one doing it
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Wow men itell you!!
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I feel the same way. We have a two year old and I'm pregnant and he doesn't do anything to help me or ask about the baby. He goes to work and he's been going out every night even during the week. And he comes home and goes to sleep. I feel so alone in this.
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Feels like they dnt ask or talk to you til when they need something its so childish... & yeah , he doesnt ask me how the baby is doing like igotta tell him first hey u no ifelt the baby move& all they say is oh thats good. Like what????? They seem like they dnt care.
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Thats how i feel everyday its sad Then Again he Nd my family says that the hormones r driving me crazy lol.. I nvr felt that way with myy first Son sooo idk lol. But hey do u go get ur pedi. Go out to the mall to walk by yourself if that helpss.
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I feel exactly the same way. I don't feel like he cares about the pregnancy or how our baby is developing. He avoids me everyday. I would ask him for his attention but it seems to annoy him and now I just keep my distance. He only talks to me when he feels like it and it's not about the baby or my pregnancy. I try talking to him about my experience of my pregnancy but he doesn't seem to care. I feel sad sometimes and makes me want to cry.
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I feel u thats how i feel my son is just 7monthss Nd Im 5monthss pregnant i do eveything at home myself i feel u
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Ihave my husband too im a mother of 2 & im 6months pregnant. & there times when ifeel lonely like im doing this by myself , he'll go to work & he'll come bck & do nothing to help me around thee house he doesnt ask me how was yer day today or do u help w.something. Ihave a 3yr old , a 1 yr old & im pregnant like iget tiredddd ihave to cook , laundry , clean , feed my kids & more ... & all he does when he comes home is eat / watch tv & goes to sleep like its noot fair & then when iget finally get to lay dwn or its nighttime to go to sleep he wants to have sex like seriously do u really think im in the mood to have sex w.you when u dnt do nothing to help me outtt??? & he just gets maddd. Like seriously? Icry myself to sleep sometimes bcuz hes being so unfair he always thinks im overreacting!!
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