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[MommyToBe4214]

I never noticed my boyfriend to watch porn until I got pregnant with our second child. I talked to him about it many of times, telling him that it bothers me but he won't stop. For example, I went in to take a shower one evening and when I got out we had sex, later on I found on his phone that he had been watching porn while I was in the shower. Ewww! Then tonight, he went into take a shower while I was getting our son to sleep, he was in there for about 15 minutes until he got in the shower. I made a remark "What, were you watching porn?" he told me he wasn't. I got in the shower after he got out and we had sex, well I just found out that he was watching it today before we had sex. I'm so disgusted by this!): Talking to him about it is out of the picture considering I've done it 100× and he still doesn't care to stop. Has anyone else went through this? Any advice? TIA!(:

[babymoma21]

I look at it like this id rather him watch porn then.b out there wit another chic they gettin there self off wit out actually being wit another b****

[NadiaKruger]

I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. I personally don't know how you feel, but I can only imagine. I don't like porn at all, it grosses me out and btw... not ALL men watch it. My husband dislikes it as much as I do. He did watch it as a teenager, but that's being a boy. When I asked him if he'd like to watch it again. He simply said no thanks. That I'm enough for him and that he grew up. Maybe that's what all men should do, grow up and be a man. If they want to fantasize, fantasize about the women in their lives...

[Bellas_Mami12]

If it makes you uncomfortable, he should respect it & not do it. If both people aren't into porn it can ruin a relationship. Every man does it but to some it becomes an addiction. Men can live without porn its not a need. If your really grossed out by it just say if things don't change you can't deal with his habits you need a break. See what happens but only say that if its what you want.

[Meshe1234]

All men, all men watch porn.... it's better for him to do that than him go out and do it

[Enjoli1]

I understand how u feel. My boyfriend watched Porn before I got pregnant. . And jack off all the time.. I mean all the time.. it use to hurt me.. I thought I wasn't good enough. . Until I realized that's what he likes. .. as long as he's not out messing around I don't care. . At times I don't feel like having sex.. when he want to have sex and I don't feel like it.. I tell him to do what he do best. And watch his Porn and leave me alone. . Crap he's going to do it anyway. .

[JayLoveJay]

My bf and i watch it together. I personally love it. As much as it turns him on, i get aroused by it also and its something to do when we are bored. I figure since hes going to watch it anyways why not watch together. (:

[FirstTimeMommy__]

All men watch porn, it used to bother me to when my boyfriend would, but women need to realize that all men are going to fantasize. Atleast they are fulfilling their fantasies by just watching porn instead of actually going out and acting upon their urges. Humans are sexual beings, especially men. We just need to let them do what they need to do instead of telling them they can't watch porn and fantasize. All that does is push them away. Watching porn and pleasuring themselves is normal and harmless. That's my opinion anyways.

[janine0205]

well,I kind of had that problem when is was pregnant with our first child and I told him the same thing,that I don't like it. He stopped and I trust him. Now that I'm pregnant with the second one,sex is super uncomfortable for me so all I can do is please him and we agreed that he can watch porn while I please him but no volume on and only till the baby is born. So maybe watch it together or something like that. Good luck!! :)

[MommyToBe4214]

Exactly! My boyfriend lies sometimes about watching it or he'll delete it thinking I didn't see it.

[goldengoddes02]

Yes it happens to me to and they just like don't care and they don't stop they just watch it and act like nothing happened.