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Lately I been thinking about how a guy can just walk out at any point and just leave a woman or a woman n their family. Its just messed up. N to do it for another woman. Its sad n painful. Married or not no man is promised to any woman. That s*cks so bad.....it is visa versa but still....
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Its true^^ I wish life was as easy as find true love get married n have your family.
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Sorry, posted to soon. Women are pressured into abortions and have to live with that trauma the rest of their lives.
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I know abortion is a hot button issue on these forums, but I just have to say that this is one of the reasons that I'm against it. Men hear " her body, her choice, not my responsibility" Its a cop out for men who don't want to step up and women end up pressured to chose between
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When I told my boyfriend I was pregnant he stopped coming around and has completly shut me out. It hurt like hell, I've never been through anything like this, this is my first kid. I'm 35 years old and about to be a single mom. I cry just about every day but I know that deep down inside, everything happens for a reason, I just don't know the reason why right now. I feel like I will be alright, well I have hope that I will.
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It hurts when my daughter asks for him.breaaks my heart she doesn't understand.
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Mine left me too.  He said if I get an abortion we can work it out but not if I go against him.  He told me to go have my baby like I want but I'll never see him again.  We've been together off and on for 8 years and all the sudden I get pg and he doesn't love me anymore! Wtf?
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8227972 tn?1414913484
he damn is! abortion never crossed my mind.. its always a blessing to have a baby.. eventhough now im gonna have to do it by myself..
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I just did A post about moms having to do it alone...my baby's father left when I told him I couldn't go through wit the abortion..so ill b doing it alone ....he actually texted me the other day and asked can he get."some". Hes out his damn mind
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Im completely with y'all. My ex left me two weeks after we found out I was pregnant, for drugs. I had no idea he was still doing them :(
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katyrb you are so right.. and worst was leaving a woman while pregnant.. it feels so wrong..
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Its so horribly unfair...society almost expects.men to do that...its not seen as a good thing, but its accepted. Can you imagine how people would look at a women who abandoned her kids like that? How much better would the world be if men actually had to grow up and take responsibility  instead of dumping it all on women???
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Yeah mine cheated on me and chose her over me and his child. It still hurts, and im sorry, but it will get better, i promise! Every day i get a little stronger and you will to.
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8377023 tn?1399509160
Some men are stupid and ignorant.

I cannot believe your husband just walked out on you like that @HappyMommaBear im so so so sorry
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8227972 tn?1414913484
we deserve better.. i dont understand that either.. we've given up all that we could even giving them a child.. which means we could get a lot of pain and all that stuff.. my husband just left me.. he chose to be with someone else over me and my baby..it hurts like hell..
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I hear yeah! Mine thought he could do whatever he wanted.Until he pushed me too far, and now im single and pregnant while he gets to go party it up! Ugh!
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