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men!!!

I have a 19 week old son and im 15 weeks pregnant again.  Just lately fella  is always wanting sex and if I don't give it him we argue.  I've been very ill with both pregnancy's but that doesn't seem to sink in.  I don't work at the moment and he says you can't be tired you don't do anything.  What to do :/
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Thats sad bc men just dont understand how r bodies feel at all when were prego...Im so.gkad I hav a husband that understands and doesnt pressure me into.anything....
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He an asswhole. You need a real man
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I don't work either but being a mom already to a child is hard work then add being pregnant on top of that, ugh I feel exhausted by noon. Luckily my husband gets it now. At first he was getting a little frustrated and impatient with me, we went from having sex almost daily to once every week or two. I just told him flat out, why would you want to gave sex with a person who doesn't want to engage in it? That just shows a lot about your character. Its selfish and shows no emotional connection. He had to think about it for a minute then he got it. I'm in my second trimester now, so I'm not as sick thankfully so I'm up to it every so often but the more he asks me about it the less into it and attractive I find him to be. Just saying, men can be real jerks and sometimes they need to be reminded of that!!!!
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Have your dr tell him you are on bed rest and sex right now isn't safe for you or the baby
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I'm no gold digger and were not married.  I've tried explaining to him but it doesn't sink in x
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Yeah, sadly it sounds like you happen to be with an as$hole. Have a talk with him, and try to settle it, or even take him to the doctors office for your appointment, and have the doctor explain the hormone changes, and why it's normal to not want sex all the time. He may be more inclined to listen to a medical professional giving a valid explanation, as guys usually find anything we have to say just us b!tching at them, and never listen. Good luck
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Divorce him and take him for all his money.
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Hes a brill dad now and again.  He never used to be like this :/
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Seems like he needs to man up and be supportive. Get it to him that he needs to do what's right for your family. There's a whole lot to love then just sex. Make him be mature about it all.
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I think you then have a really bad relationship.. there is no man like this my envirement... Maybe its my nationality.. i dont know i dont mean to be rude or anything like that so i am sorry if you take it like that. My partner is so supportive and he has been always the one since im pregnant who doesnt wanna have sex cause he is worried about our little baby.. i am sorry he should support you and not just make babies.. you need to rest your body is producing everything for your babies it needs a lot energy of course you are tired... Try to make him understand this and just dont take it serious if he wants to argue;)
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I'm in the same boat lol n I dunno it does get very aggravating at times tho
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