no clue why I hate my in laws...

[anj3li3]

I feel soo bad. They did nothing wrong, they seem to care, it seems... this is my 2nd pregnancy. But after all my experience after giving birth to my son  and how they were to me, I just don't feel the support and love I thought i'd receive. They are not monsters just i don't feel genuine care or love.

Everytime I see them I want to run away, since I got pregnant I dislike being with them or seeing them.

Specially my MIL i sense soo much false or fake caring from her. I dont understand why i feel this way. So confused I dont want to be a b...*tch

[BeeJ8]

*here.... I'm swyping on my phone so there may be many incorrect words...

[BeeJ8]

Same hear... I can't stand my father-in-law right now. He had to live with us and since being pregnant, I seem to dislike him sooooo much. Everything he does gets on my nerves. I'm blaming my mood on my hormones and being so sick. I guess I have to take it out on someone and he's the one who's around me all day bc I don't work and my husband is at work all day

[MrsFancis]

Don't feel bad. I hate my in laws as well.  They are fake and phony.  I stay far away as possible. I have 2 boys and currently pregnant with my 3rd. The juicy part is I divorce their son and my baby is not by him. I am free from the fakeness. I don't go around them and I love it that way. If your in laws don't like, don't try to force up to them.  It's not worth the stress

[anj3li3]

Lol thank you. You are both right.

I feel so alone and I hate remembering I couldn't even get up on my own after the c section and not a single day I see her or heard from her and we are on the same property....
After 3 days i forced myself to go Downstairs i swear our house was like hoarders lol

But yes thank you true.. I should expect less.

I dont have any relative here it is just my husband and in laws. I was hoping at least a little care hahahah now I know I shouldnt

[ektauprety]

The problem is about EXPECTATIONS!! We expect too much from our in laws at the time of pregnancy. We want them to care us like our mother n father but we have to remember they are our in laws not our real parents. Our parents gave so much love to us so we expect same from others. I used to feel same when I am still 35 weeks pregnant but now I am used to it and expect less from my MIL.. They are not bad but its just they cannot care us from heart because they have no love from heart and this doesn't mean they hate us..this is the true relationship of a woman with her in laws!!!!

[LyakGarcia]

It may be just the hormones,  because when i was pregnant with #3 i could not stand my son, God knows i love him with all my heart and will give my life for him, but i just wanted to stuff his mouth and not hear him, or see him, i felt horrible, i still do sometimes but soon after my mamy was birn everything went back to normal,  i really hope it gets better between you and your in laws =)