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Ive got 13 days left in my pregnancy I'm scared and stressed out about it and lately I've been feeling extremely unattractive :( when my fiance gets him he either makes dinner or I already have it made (I'm not allowed in the kitchen) then he either jumps on video games or Facebook and when I try and talk about it with him he just says "yes your still attractive" but he won't look at me, I can't get him to cuddle, I can't get him to shower with me anymore, or even go for a short walk with me :( I know he leaves at 3 in the morning and I get all his stuff around like lunch and clothing but then he doesn't get back until almost 6 at night. I don't know what to do anymore and its like if we have any company suddenly he's off the games and his phone and they have his complete attention but I can't get that for even 5 minutes anymore :(
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I'll try that but I doubt it will work at all and your probably right :/ he's been through it before so he's probably just taking it differently and more calm than I am
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Him working all the time is no excuse for not wanting to spend every second he has away from work with you. This guy sounds like a jerk. My fiance works from 5 am to 7 pm every day and he complains all the time that we never even get to hang out anymore. He spends every second he can with me. I'm very sorry ur going threw that especially this close to your due date you need as little stress *** possible just try and maybe have like a sit down talk with him write down on a piece of paper all the things that have been bothering you about him lately or maybe things you guys used to do all the time that you don't anymore and look at everything use write and just try and figure out at way to sit him down and a dress it all to him so that he sees how you've been fealing.
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11427728 tn?1418135731
Tust me i no that feeling my man can be the same way...but men really take this whole baby thing alot differently yhen we do....and trust me they are paying attention just not showing it...but because he has already been threw it once could be another reason he is calm...should he be more supportive emotionally hell yes...but some men u cant change...if u ever need to talk dont be afraid to talk to some one ur close to. If he wont...u can even get a hold of me on here...but u gotta understand right now he is in his own zone...as messed up as it is thats how alot of men get...thats why this is a good app we can talk and rant all we want cuz someone will be there to listen and understand...but dont seeat it too much...i no its hard because of hormones but like i said u can always come on here or talk to a close friend or something there is always someone out there who will listen
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I've tried that he just says I'll be fine and there's nothing to worry about :( he already has a little boy but this is my first and no matter how I try to sit down with him he doesn't seem to pay attention or care :(
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11427728 tn?1418135731
Try to sit down and talk to Him about this....but he might be acting this way because he is getting just as stressted and scared as u but he just showing it differently...wait till u see he is in a decent mood and tell him u really need to talk and that ur scared hopefully he will...good luck
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