partner can't make it to my 20 week scan :(

[sammybaby3]

My partner is a manager of a big company he isn't able to make our 20 week scan this is his 1st baby I understand he can't make it but we want to find out the sex of the baby but I don't want to find out before him does anybody have any ideas on how I can make it special for him xxx

[victoriamichelle1010]

Can you reschedule for a day you know he can go?

[Diane_n]

If he can't make the 20 week scan then get a private scan. You can find out the sex of the baby at 16 weeks plus the experience is more better in the private scan.
He won't want to miss this opportunity,  it is a great bonding experience with your first baby

[SarahK088]

My ultrasound tech got a picture of the gender and you can always turn away as they do it and they can put that one picture in an envelope and pull it  out when you partner gets home. On the bottome of mine the tech had typed "i'm a BOY!" Its nice

[Katiepeters]

Get a friend to go with you. Have the tech pull her outside to tell her the sex. Then she can know and help u plan. You could do a cake or balloon or a piñata

[sammybaby3]

Aww thankyou ladies they are all lush ideas xxx

[KaylaWhit15]

Get them to write the sex down on paper and put in envelope and wait until he get home then yall will know together.

[allesiab]

Get the person doing u r scan to writ either down on a peace of paper and then look together when u get home

[showard022]

I heard some one on here has the ultrasound tech right it on a paper and not tell them. They then went to the baker and had them put either blue or pink frosting inside the cake. :) kind of cute. But if it'd a boy I doubt you won't know by looking at the screen.