what do i do?

[scorpio0815]

My child father wants me to have an abortion...  this would be.my second child and his third. He said he will pay for the abortion ... I just can't believe how he want me to do this

[purple26]

My baby daddy said the same thing because he already has a kid with someone else and isn't ready for another I cried and cried for a long time thinking he just didn't want a baby with me but after talking about it I told him I will be carrying the baby and having to go through a lot not him till after birth he can decide then but in my opinion it's up to you if he leaves cause you didn't do what he said it's not true love or ment to be but don't give up a miracle because of him.

[Kathy2015]

I've never been a big cheerleader for abortion but I do believe  its your right if YOU choose. My ex wanted me to have an abortion as well. I told him no. That was the best choice I made. God do I love that little girl (who is 7 now). Bright, beautiful, funny, caring and sensitive. Do what feels right to you.

[AmandaR19]

People fight to even get pregnant or even have a baby in general. Or like me I gave birth to my precious little girl at only 22 weeks and she didn't make it! Being pregnant is a blessing please take it as one.

[BbyV]

Pray about this. See if he will pray with you. If not, fine. You have choices, options.. Pray. Pray. Pray.

[wayfunmommy]

No one can force you to have an abortion. If he doesn't want the baby, he isn't worth keeping around. Ditch him, not your baby.

[bnl0725]

If you don't want an abortion you tell him to take a hike and do what you gotta do to take care of your baby. Don't ever let a man try to force you to do something you are against.

[yeeyee39]

Im in the same position totally aganist abortions but being forced to have one because he dont want it o want my baby he dont so what you i do

[wayfunmommy]

You do what you feel is right in your heart. It's not a choice I could ever make.

[fefesbabynumtwo]

My bio father wanted my mom to do the same with me, but my mom said no way. Thank god she did because I'm here and my mom and me have a wonderful relationship. It's your choice, don't let him pressure you into it if you don't want to.

[Mommywu]

My baby father said the same thing and here I am 30 weeks pregnant and the happiest person I can be. It is YOUR body, it is YOUR choice, who cares if he throws money at you for the abortion. I am 19 and personally against abortions. My baby's father and I are not together but he's there for me and the baby. Pray to God he will see you through. But don't make your choice because of the man.

[Midgett_Mommy]

It's both of your choices, not just his. He can't force you to get an abortion. If you want one as well, there is nothing wrong with it. If you don't and want to put the baby up for adoption, talk to him about it. Same if you want to keep it. When I found out I was pregnant, I almost chose an abortion, even though I'm completely against them. My boyfriend was there for me through the entire process and we came to a decision together. It isn't just his child.

[adara1990]

Don't do it you will regret it and he will come around. Please don't ruin a life before it can begin.