18 weeks and no heart beat!!

[TeshiaMae]

So found out on jan. 10 that my baby had no heart beat and on the 13th i had a dnc done.... still don't know why or how this happend. But it keeps running threw my mind "What did i do Wrong?" :(

[Babe1234iloveyou]

Iv lost my child to ... its so sad i no how you feel my prayers to you .. u will soooon be happy agin

[blessed_mommaandwife]

Don't blame yourself sweetie God is still in control and He can be comfort when nothing else is. Your baby is playing with other children in heaven under the care of angels :-) I wish I could just hug ya and show ya some love but I will be praying for ya! Feel free to message me if ya wanna talk. God bless!

[nanisz]

Dont blame yourself. I had the same thing I always got upset thinking it was my fault but then again god only knows why. But god gave me another one and my pregnant is going good so far.

[drinkybabyxx]

This happened to my friend, she went for her 20 week scan and no heartbeat. It's very sad but sometimes it happens. Turns out her and her husband both have choromosome abnormalities and it was completely out of their control. I hope you get answers soon.

[yp44]

Im so sorry sweetie to hear that it was just all in Gods plans my heart goes out hun and may God bless you stay strong sweetie and keep your head up there are better days to come!!!!

[scillacts]

I'm so sorry hun :( I hope you'll have your miracle baby soon. Everything happens for a reason & maybe god had better plans for you. Maybe the baby would've have health problems. So don't blame yourself momma

[InsaneRoman]

Awww, that's good. I adore mine, and the nurse even more. If it were me I would probably end up trying again quite quickly. I don't see it as "replacing" the baby at all. I think new hope would help me cope. So maybe if you even only start PLANNING to try again, it may give you something to look forward to. :)

[TeshiaMae]

Thank you both its been hard but i want to try again in the future and my doc that i had was amazing i couldn't of asked for a better doc.

[InsaneRoman]

Omg, I'm so sorry.... :,( Sometimes things just happen... I know it's not going to help any to hear that, but nothing you did could have caused it. Unless you continually threw yourself down the stairs or shot meth directly into your placenta, don't beat yourself up over it. It's horrible to lose a baby at any stage, and at 18 weeks you feel so safe... If there was nothing wrong with you medically or wrong with the placenta that could have caused it, it was probably developing a defect that would make life outside the womb not an option. Sometimes it happens. A really crappy reason and excuse but you did NOTHING WRONG. I want to hug you. I am so sorry... Prayers go out to you and your loved ones. Grieve all you need to. I'm so sorry...

[Aubree23]

Hun dnt blame yourself everything is in gods control and plan in our lives. God sees thing's we cant see for ourselves but its all for our good. Just know he makes no mistakes go easy on yourself. You can message me anytime yu want to talk.