when he pulls out, it's when he's in the middle of..."it". So that's why were trying this way. For now. And yes, I know It can take up to 6 month/ 1 year to get pregnant even with a healthy couple.. so were just taking our time. No rushes.
look, you sound miffed, i'm sorry i didn't understand what you meant. i just didn't understand that you are pulling out all the time. and for me, i guess i dont know why you would make a 'mess' on your unfertile days (which you know what they are) but that is just me and i guess its hard for me to wrap my head around. i just didn't quite understand your strategy.
but i am happy that you found something you are comfortable with as that is very important. good luck to you and your partner i wish you lots of babydust. and dont forget it can take a few extra months when you are really really trying too. : )
Because you can STILL get pregnant from pre-*** And, there's ALWAYS a chance someone can get pregnant from unprotected sex. But, like I said before, it's just not as stressful right now on us. This is how WE are trying this. We have things in our life going on that need to be handled...We used condoms for a long time.. Just taking the chance of not using them is a new thing to us. It's different for everyone.This is how we are choosing to do this for now. But, thanks to those for the kind words. I will keep you all updated. :)
hi, sorry, i am confused. you are ttc but you're not trying? so are you pulling out on days you are ewcm'ing too? and if you are aware of your fertile time then what does it matter if he finishes inside you or not when you aren't in your fertile time? i guess i just dont understand why you would pull out at all if you are okay with getting pregnant. or is it that that is just what you are use to and you do it that way because it doesn't feel so stressful for you? i dunno, see i dont like the mess of pulling out and if you're somewhat trying then why make a mess is what i figure. i dunno, guess i'm crazy.
SSBD your way!!
Keep us posted!
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