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8 weeks today at 19

My baby is due december 14th but im totally confused. I Was with two different exs at the time of conception. So im not sure which one could be the father. All i know was one was a week before the other.... It prob makes me sound horrible but i was at a party with the one ex and the other i am still not completely over.. The one im not over cheated on his gf with me and now she is pregnant also. She is 6 weeks..he said she is liable to have a miscarriage.. I just dont know what to do or how to tell my family all this ??
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Have you had an ultrasound yet? With the time period being so close you may not find out the father until the baby is born. Unless an ultrasound can pin point the conception date.  Out of the 5 kids my mother had 3 of us she never knew who the father was until she got a dna test done. As long as both guys are informed and willing to take a test than just wait and if they both would like updates than do update them on the pregnancy. Your parents will probably be upset at first but your their daughter and your carrying their grandbaby. People make mistakes and parents don't always admit to their own mistakes. Everything will work out how it's supposed too, maybe do some research about dna test while your still pregnant. My friend did one while she was pregnant. Idk how they do it though. And I'd just talk to your doctor about it all!
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I started my last period march 9th. And i had sex with my one ex on the 21st and the other was the 27th of March. I am starting my 8th week today. My parents know about me being pregnant but they dont know it could be someone else.
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I used an online conception calculator just based off your due date & it came up with your estimated  ovulation date was March 23rd , that you could have conceived from March 19th-March 27th. Now this is all estimated but maybe that could help if your period is regular and you ovulate the same time.
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Dna test will tell you the father of the baby, if you are honest with both guys about the possibilities that they can be the father than plan to get dna tests done when your baby is born. Now do you remember the dates of when you slept with them & when your period was ? Speak with the doctor and see if you can maybe pin point all that to help a bit. I have heard of a dna test while the baby is still in you. As far as family goes are you scared to tell them you are pregnant or that it's between two different guys the father could be? I'd be honest with them and those who support you is awesome! Everyone will have opinions on everything. I'm 22 and pregnant with my third baby and I'm judge by a lot of family for it. Just try not to stress since you don't really and won't really know who he father is until the baby is born.
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