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A lot of tension

I'm 10 weeks tomorow but I'm starting to feel regret with my baby, which is the last thing I want. Me and my bf are both happy about the baby, but problems are helping us out. For one he doesn't have a job anymore. And then to top it off on the way to my first appointment he gets a ticket for speeding.. doesn't make things any better.. and then to top it off I feel like I'm stressing him out with my moods.

What is the best thing for me to do ?
I just wish I could help him.. makes me feel really down..
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A man ego is always bruised when he can't provide for his family. Try talking with him.
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Things will get better prayer has gotten me through so much! Pray on it and I will pray for you. Be stron for your baby.
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@jessicamae79 thank you I'll have to look into that I just don't wanna be down so much, its not good for the baby. But hopefully everything gets better, I hope...
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@joceeykittykitty well not really because of the problems but more because of how my boyfriend is acting towards me because of the problems, just being the fact that he feels really hopeless right now knowing we need money most right now.
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I would just take one moment at a time and seek help from a therapist good luck mommy
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You're regretting your baby because you have problems? Am I correct?
Well everyone goes through problems and hardships with baby or no baby, that's life. Maybe you need to reassure yourself if a baby will drag you down? There's always adoption... but you can't run away when things go hard. Although sometimes it seems that when it rains it pours, doesn't mean it will always be like that.
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