AM I CRAZY IS HE MESSED UP

[carshells]

So my husband is a bit inconsiderate sometimes. He said it's a bot cold in the room and I told him I was hot. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and it's summer and humid and I'm just hot. He's like well it's cold he didn't turn it off but he put it on energy saver which doesny bother me but the fact that he is willing to put my uncomfortable just so he's comfy is upsetting. Am I over reacting or is he messed up.

[tattoobabyjean]

Its def a guy thing. My fiancé tries his best to tough it out but he's very thin so he gets chilly easier. We compromised, I use a fan directly on me when in the living room and pretty much walk around in a tank top and panties (no complaints from him there haha) because I can be comfortable with the constant cool breeze.

When he is at work I run the ac. I always keep a blanket on the couch too because if he is getting too cold he can cover up and it gives me a good reason to snuggle!

I also find I have extremely hot feet so I went to the dollar store and bought a square bin. I fill it with cold water and some ice and soak my feet. It cools me down so fast and feels super good.

[carshells]

Thanks ladies I know this is an old post but believe it or not it's still an argument he says it's too cols in the room I told him to bundle up. And just get another blanket or something but he's just not cooperating.

[iLovekjoy2]

Sounds like your hormones...and you said he didn't turn it off so I wouldn't be too upset about it if I were you.

[jess-ann5]

Don't stress about it. It very simple fix. Give him a blanket and both of you get over it. Lol I understand how you feel but I don't think you should fight about it. Not worth the stress on the baby!

[KeziaBrightsea]

You're the one who has a higher body temperature. That's a fact. He needs to be understanding. My boyfriend is always extreme in temperature but he always asks me what I need first because he is considerate of myself and his child. You aren't overreacting. He can use a blanket. You can only undress so much. Good luck!

[kennimae]

My husband and I went through this my whole pregnancy. I would sleep in shorts and a tshirt with no blankets or anything with he fan on high and still be hot. He would just sleep in boxers and wouldnt even try to bundle up besides the blanket but would complain he was cold. It caused quite a few arguments because he wasnt willing to compromise.

[carshells]

Bump

[cecepretty]

Honestly girl let it goo...your over reacting ,its just your hormones so lil things are gonna get to u

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

I wouldve told him to use a blanket. He can cover up more you can only strip so much. Thankfully my hubby is always hot so our room is like an ice box at night. We've got two floor fans, a ceiling fan and the AC on.