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Okay, so i'm 21 weeks pregnant, and unfortunately my stress level has been a little high. If anyone can offer advice or anyone knows about the situation please post a comment!
Okay, so i had unprotected sex at a party with an ex back in May, i think it was in the middle/closer to the end of May, he did *** inside of me, i cannot remember when i got my period before that.. I took a pregnancy test on May 29th that came up negative, and my period started on May 30, i had bad cramps like usual at the beginning of my period, and bled for 5 to 6 days, but it was a lot lighter than usual, i didn't think anything of it because i had gotten the negative pregnancy test the day before it started. I started dating a man that i have been hanging out with casually, also a close friend that i had known for years on June 2 and its been the happiest i have been in my entire life, we had unprotected sex on June 6, and again on June 7, then a couple of days later.. I started to have really strange cramps, that were a minor annoyance around June 21 or 22, then a spot of blood that i'm unsure of the color because i was wearing bright colored underwear and thought i was getting my period a week early so i put a pad or for a day but nothing happened. I'm positive that had to be the implantation! I took a test that came out positive on July 3 I went to the Dr on July 5 and they gave me a due date of March 6. I had an ultrasound at 9 weeks and 5 days which they later told me would have changed my due date to March 11.. but they were going to stick with my gestational age of the due date of March 6 sense it wasn't a significant amount of change. I'm 95% sure it's my boyfriends baby, and i'm trying not to stress about it because i know that's not good for me or the baby, but that 5% of uncertainty is killing me.. he is extremely excited to be a daddy and i'm so scared to tell him because he has been to every appointment with me and it will break my heart to see an ounce of doubt in his eyes, the last thing i want to do is hurt him.. Should i try to get a private moment to speak with my Dr? Any advise is helpful. Thank you for reading..
Okay, so i had unprotected sex at a party with an ex back in May, i think it was in the middle/closer to the end of May, he did *** inside of me, i cannot remember when i got my period before that.. I took a pregnancy test on May 29th that came up negative, and my period started on May 30, i had bad cramps like usual at the beginning of my period, and bled for 5 to 6 days, but it was a lot lighter than usual, i didn't think anything of it because i had gotten the negative pregnancy test the day before it started. I started dating a man that i have been hanging out with casually, also a close friend that i had known for years on June 2 and its been the happiest i have been in my entire life, we had unprotected sex on June 6, and again on June 7, then a couple of days later.. I started to have really strange cramps, that were a minor annoyance around June 21 or 22, then a spot of blood that i'm unsure of the color because i was wearing bright colored underwear and thought i was getting my period a week early so i put a pad or for a day but nothing happened. I'm positive that had to be the implantation! I took a test that came out positive on July 3 I went to the Dr on July 5 and they gave me a due date of March 6. I had an ultrasound at 9 weeks and 5 days which they later told me would have changed my due date to March 11.. but they were going to stick with my gestational age of the due date of March 6 sense it wasn't a significant amount of change. I'm 95% sure it's my boyfriends baby, and i'm trying not to stress about it because i know that's not good for me or the baby, but that 5% of uncertainty is killing me.. he is extremely excited to be a daddy and i'm so scared to tell him because he has been to every appointment with me and it will break my heart to see an ounce of doubt in his eyes, the last thing i want to do is hurt him.. Should i try to get a private moment to speak with my Dr? Any advise is helpful. Thank you for reading..
I'm confident in saying its your boyfriends. if you were stressing about being pregnant by your ex it could have easily been stress causing an odd period. i would be honest with him regardless.
@nicolemk ... we have the exact same due date !!:) message me I need a pregnancy buddy ... and as for the question ... why dont you do a conception calcuator to ease your mind ?! ... it will take your due date and give you a range of possible days you conceived :) plus it's kind of fun to know anyways lol ... good luck and don't stress yourself love ... a happy moma is a happy baby
I got pregnant the beginning to mid may and im due in January. .. so I would say its most likley your bfs baby but I woukd be honest with him.
Your fine honey .. I'm due Feb. 16 and I conceived around the time of May 19th to the 26th .. plus you got your pd
Im pretty sure its your bfs. The dates wouldnt add up if it was the other guys. Maybe you should talk to him about what happened. It might clear your conscious. He doesnt need to know you have had thoughts that he wasn't the father bcuz I doubt he isnt. I personally wouldnt tell him unless it was during your relationship with him. Most guys dont wanna know past lovers
I'm due march 8th and I conceived in mid June. My lmp was June 2 and got my positive I think July 2. Based on ur encounter dates and due date I don't think there's any way it's not ur bfs. Only way to be 100 percent tho is a dna test. Good luck hon
Based on your due date there's no way you got pregnant in May. I got pregnant mid May and my due date is February 5 and I'm 25 weeks. Early ultrasounds are actually very accurate so I would not worry at all.
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