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Okay.. So I'm 35 weeks and 4 days.. In the beginning of my pregnancy I promised my boyfriend that we would name our son after him.. well just recently we got into a HUGEE fight. Long story short I find that looking up porn is cheating just my views and beliefs. Being 8 in a half months pregnant it absolutely destroyed me that my boyfriend was looking up sexy skinny girls when I'm here all huge and have stretch marks all over. I didn't even talk to him for 3 days or say I love you or kiss him for a week.in a half. And we still aren't having intercourse.. I'm just not ready again.. well.. I decided that I didn't wanna name our son after him anymore and now we have a totally different named picked out. we are some what back to normal.. and now I find myself wanting to.go.back to my original decision and name our son  after him.... when our son is born I want to surprise him by naming our son after him..  but I don't want to.regret my decision after I fill out his birth certificate. He doesn't know im thinking about it.. I absolutely love the name we have. But.. I wanna give our son my boyfriends name... Opinions? Nothing rude please.
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Well in the beginning of our relation I told him how I felt about porn.. He said he would.never look it up and he did it once in the beginning of my pregnancy before we even found out that i was pregnant. He promised to never do it again and then did just recently. I love him to death. He's the love of my life and I wanna name our baby after him like I promised. I just don't want to.regret it. We have been through a lot honestly. On and off for a year in a half and our baby is gonna be here in 4 in a half weeks. I just want to make the right choice.. its so hard though.
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Thats a tough situation. As I agree about looking at porn is cheating. It is devastating no matter if your pregnant or not. Porn degrades women and is ignorant.
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