geting pregnant

[genieinabottle55]

want to get pregnant my fiance doesnt he uses a condom all the time.  what can i do to get pregnant using a condom

[sewpretty]

if you're already engaged why not wait till you're married?  After that you can point at allll the cute clothes and stuff.  'Till then, why not get a puppy?

[diva_lorri]

here here! well said!

[GreenEyedMama]

.Why would you want a baby with someone who doesnt?Thats just messed up to do something like that and selfish.There are enough unwanted babys born!!

[martikadragoon]

I think she still has a lot of growing up to do if she's willing to trick a guy who obviously doesn't want a baby.

[heatherlynn22]

if he doesnt want to have a  baby yet how is it fair to him to do it anyway? it could ruin the relationship. just wait till he's ready or start babysitting.

[Mommy3Girls]

Thank you! I agree. Any girl or woman that thinks its right or fair to trick a man that way really needs to take a better look at herself! ;)

[martikadragoon]

Your hilarious.. really because I do a ton of rambling. have you seen my posts? I do know that I got really lucky in the fact that DH has grown to be very happy. He had this mentality that it couldn't really happen to us.

He got shown. lol, now he knows not to get so playful 3 days before O' date. haha. But still.... It's a serious thing, and it's not something to play with lightly or to try to trick a man into, even I know that. and I did think about it once or twice.

[Mommy3Girls]

Lois, even better, short and sweet and to the point.

martika-exactly-that is shorter and about the same point I was trying to make. I just tend to ramble too much, lol!!!

[loismwallace]

You shouldn't do your partner like that. It's not fair to him........That's all I have to say

[martikadragoon]

You need to be sure he wants or at least wouldn't be P*ssed off by you getting pregnant first. To trick him is the worst thing you could do. It could cause you to be a single mother! (him leave you) a baby is not something to just make a couple close, or to make a man love you more or to tether you to him. Its a joint decision except in those cases where it's an accident. (it was for me, but my hubby is the one who wasn't careful and knew it could happen.) maybe make sure your in a stable enough relationship first to handle something like that. This is coming from a 21yr. old but a mature 21yr. old who's been in a steady relationship for over 5yrs.

[Mommy3Girls]

I think if you are going to get pregnant you should definitely be in agreement with your fiance'! If he doesnt want a baby yet and is not ready it could be detrimental to your relationship. If you want a baby that bad then dont use him as a sperm donor. Not to sound rude or anything like that, but it wouldn't be fair to him for you  to get pregnant if he is not ready to be a father. Not only for his sake but for yours and the baby's as well, it is not a good idea to get pregnant with his if he doesnt want to be a father yet. Dont you want to make sure the father of the baby is planning on being there for the rest of the baby's life? If you get pregnant with a man and he doesnt want to be a daddy he may split, and then that baby doesnt have a daddy there. There are lots of circumstances to being a parent and I could go on and on about this, but the bottom line, it takes two to make the baby and two to be a mommy and a daddy, so you should either wait until your fiance is ready if you plan on spending the rest of your life with him, and if not then there is much more to this than just wanting a baby.

[StressHead]

Fantastically diplomatic Joy !!

My suggestion is find a willing father if you want a baby. Accidental pregnancies/not really accidental can be very nasty :(

[JoyRenee]

Uh, maybe you should be on the same page with your fiance before trying to conceive without his knowledge. That will probably really hurt him.