All your comments are interesting, and my husband just said to me last night that I'm thinking too much about this, and that we need to just go with it and if it happens, it happens. I'm starting to agree! I went out and bout the ovulation predictor kit and have been testing daily, and really, nothing will change for me if I'm ovulating or not. My hubby and I BD 5 times a week as it is, so we're sure to do it around ovulation at least once I would think.
i had just read about that o thing im not even sure its even true i was just trying to help....
I am currently pregnant. My husband and I were ttc for 5 months when he got his hand mangled in an exhaust fan. He had to have one finger amputated and pins put in two of his others. We decided that we would put things on hold until he was healed up and off the pain killers. Needless to say, as soon as he stopped taking the pain killer and was up to it, it just happened. I was not even counting days, and completely had forgotten when my last period had been. I was completely shocked to say the least. For my sister, they tried for 4 years, and when they decided it wasn't going to work and to quit trying, she got pregnant the next month.
Heck! I heard that the women is NOT supposed to have an orgasm...something about the muscle contractions can push the sperm out.......Geez....You hear more weird stuff when on the TTC journey! And to think I've gone MONTHS without O! HAHA!
I got pregnant in September but m/c in October. I agree with lilpixie. My fiance and i decided we wanted to have a baby but we were going to just let it happen when it happened and sure enough I couldn't believe it, I got pregnant. Now ever since our m/c i have been obsessed, taking bbt, opk, etc. I am not even having fun with it anymore. Before it was exciting to bd and now it feels like a job. I decided to stop with everything and go back to having fun and letting it happen when it happens. Good luck in ttc. One bit of advice i can tell you is to lay down for awhile after, at least 30-45 mins. Don't get right up to use the bathroom.
I was preggo in novemeber but mc in dec... and to be honest we didnt do anything special the month i got preggo. I wasnt counting days for ov or any of that... we just decided we wanted to start trying went off bc and took folic acid. I find that now that were activily trying its just not happeneing... so my advice would be to stop thinking about it so much have fun with you husband/partner and your be preggo before you know it. Thats what weve decided to do from here on out, hopefully it will work like the last time : ) best of luck!
i too im ttc but have not yet been lucky,im waiting closer to my af to take an hpt, stop drinking caffine alltogether take folic acid i heard that helps woman ttc, the pillow under the butt thing i heard works do it for 30mins with no pillow under your head. during the baby dance having an orgasam u have a higher chance of getting pregnant,