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Feeling so down

Hi ladies, well im in labor and I'm having a hard time dealing with contractions i haven't gotten no meds and I'm around 4 cm dilated, there are times where i want to quit and when baby daddyis taking a little nap i start crying because i ffeel like such a weak person. I get so upset and scared  feel so sad right now .... Please keep me in your prayers so my strength won't go away please
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Sending you my prays +
God bless you and baby. Congrats (:
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Yout doing better than you think.  Your lovely babys almost here and all what your going through will be worth it. Its not the most pleasant feeling right now but it wont last forever.  Try get sone pain relief.  Good luck
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Well i wanna thank those who said positive things and werent rude, at the moment i needed support no judgement sometimes we might have our family with us but we need support from women who already went thru the pain thru the insecurity the weak moments... Cuz you feel alone even thoe all women have went thru it...
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Sending prayers your way hunny.
You are so close to having your baby realize the pain is temporary and you are so much stronger than you think!
It may seem scary but your one Step closer :)
We are all here for you!
If u are really struggling have u asked about any medicine?
I know some hospitals offer laughing gas during labor. And if later you need an epidural the gas does not affect it.
They also offer oxygen to help you breathe through contractions.
Did you bring any books or anything with you to Keep yourself distracted till he wakes up?
Or just wake him up and tell him to massage your back while you're in pain
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@Octoberlove7 - that wasn't to be taken to the heart, lol! You may wanna watch the way you read things , nobody asked you to put your feelings on this post as to how you felt about MY comment hun. Lol!
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@mylovelovebugs how very insensitive to her post. I dont see how people get on here and list comments that can be better left in thier narrow minded head..... On a positive note @augustmommytobe your stronger than you think my gosh you are 4 cm already mama!! Its ok to be nerves its ok to even cry! Your in control and can do this!! Don't be ashamed of getting help too an epidural is not a sign of defeat. It can and will help you get through this labor. I waatched my friend in labor today and she was able to smile and enjoy it because of her epidural. This was the first time I seen her smile in two days because of contraction. She gave birth to a healthy baby boy this afternoon and all those fears and thinking she couldn't do it the previous days went out the window. I pray you have peace on god gives you the stretch to continue. You will be holding your baby soon congrats!!  
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I don't see how you guys are able to get on this forum to let people know you're in labor . I'd be in so much pain where a phone would be the last thing on my mind .
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