Basically me and my partner split on very bad terms when I found out he was cheating on me and when trying to leave he beat me knowing I was pregnant and causing cartridge damage to my back, when finally managing to leave and getting my own place, two weeks later a woman knocked on my door looking for him and stated that he is to know that his son has been born! I had no idea of this lady, or her pregnancy and meant that not only had he need having an affair with a friend of ours but also fathered a child with this other woman! Even after everything I tried to do the best thing by our child and allow him rights despite the bitterness between us, he has been invited to every hospital, specialist, midwife and doctors appointment and not been to one, his also not been in contact except the one message stating his moved on, and wants nothing to do with our child! So why do I feel like its me that's let our child down, knowing daddy's not going to be there!? Recently however his family who I have always been close too have been in contact wanting to know whether I would be willing to give them visits? What should I do?? X