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Friends :/

Today a friend from years that I considered a best friend barely hmu after the whole 6 months I've been preggo. I was like all of a sudden bich. But I was nice. Realized today that nothing will ever be the same. Feeling more lonely today then ever. Wheres all my cali moms comeover I got a prenatal workout on dvd and decaffiniated tea:)
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I know how you feel. My "best friend" was around the beginning of my pregnancy, planning a baby shower,  talking about how she's gonna be there for me everyday and at the hospital...blah blah blah and then she goes mia. Doesn't text me on my birthday,  but texted me a month later saying she "missed me". Like okay...I ignored her and she texted me another month later saying "merry xmas". That's it. Like ok fake a$$ biotch lol. Screw it. I have my fiance and family.  That's all I need! I haven't talked to her since and she's not invited to the baby shower.  Hell, she won't even get the news when my daughter's born.  I hate people who think they can just come and go whenever they please.  
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5761111 tn?1373906251
Awwww I love u dreama!!! Those aren't friends I told u I stopped talking to everyone cus they only there when they need something but when I needed them they were no where. im here for u boo!!
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6883059 tn?1395509077
Friends & pregnacy ehh I'd rather stay by myself lol. I love my best friend but I honestly think she might be jealous of me being pregnant every time I mention something she acts happy but to me it seems so fake, she also tries to act as if she's doing a lot more fun things & getting to go places I can't go since I'm pregnant. I haven't seen her since I told her I was pregnant we talk like every other day but every time I ask her to come spend the day with me or something she's always "busy". I'm like how can someone be that busy if you're not in school, don't have any kids, you're not working lol I'm done with her excuses & I realize I don't need friends I just have to do everything for my daughter & that's all I need to be happy
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Aww thanks natali! Love ya too!!


Why are girls like that?i never got jealous when my gfs were pregnant or wifeing it i was always happy and involved and now when its my turn i feel alone!! Wtf. Thats weak. And now that its baby shower time im like blehh! You guys are right i just need to focus on my little donut hell be here so soon i cant let ppl bring me down
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Girls are weird lol. She was my only friend that was a girl.  Just focus on your new little family.  That's what I'm doing :)
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Over the years I learned theres no real "friends"
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Yupp ive always been the type to kick it with my guy friends even with my man and all his friends ahha i fit in but all my gfs of yearsss are acting lame.
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6265786 tn?1386113658
I was there for my best friend when she was preggo went to her scans bought her baby stuff. I gave up in the end she never bothered to visit me or hang out. I found it was me trying to spend time with her. she would rather hang out with preggo mums. now that im pregnant havnt heard from her at all. so I dontt really care at the end of the day its my family and my man who has been there from the get go so that's all I care about. friends who reallly needs them. my mans all I need! my mum is my best friend!! :))
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6725113 tn?1392847526
My "best friend" since 1st grade was literally like family to me. Her grandmother adopted her at age 2 & when her gma died when we were 16 she was forced to move back in with her mom that never wanted her to begin with.  My mom took her in and she had nobody but me & my family until she was able to be on her own. While I was pregnant with my second child I NEVER seen her. She didn't come to my bby shower or anything.  But she found out at theend of my pregnancy that she was preg. & all the sudden "needed" me. I took her to every appointment, every scan, took get shopping,  planned her bby shower & on the day she delivered I stayed with her in the hospital the whole time up until it was time to push & her mother showed up & told the doctor she only wanted "family" in there. I waited outside seen her little girl for 2 mins and was asked by her mother to leave so she could rest? Wtf? Anyways. Haven't seen her or her daughter since & when I told her I was pregnant this time she was rude about it. SayingI sHould've waited longer since my son is only two. Umm im married,  finished collage,  had a good paying job & think my husband and I are ready for our last. I think she's a jealous biitch, bcuz her "bae daddy" as she calls him didn't stick around. It hurt my feelings but oh well.. friends like that who needs them?  Sorry so long. Ur post just reminded me why i hate girls.  Lmao
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@nellyz hii havent heard from you in a whilee! Yupp your right tho all we need is our family. How funny my mom is my bestie too we went thriftinf today i told her i was sad and thats where she took me haha love itt! Found little booties for babyboy.

@valerie21 wow dudee that chick straight up used you for yearss. Id probably hate girls after that too. Atleast you can look bad and saay that you were a good friend. That chick on the flip side is gonna get the same **** done to her. Karma.
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6265786 tn?1386113658
wikid!!! I love those shops got a beauuuttiful set of antique draws for $30 bux for baby got them restored and valued they are worth $400 love it!!! but I ain't selling they for bubba lol. how u been!! I've already started putting babys room together. im going for a jurassic park dino theme. what plans do u have! :) do u have any names in mind for your boy yet??? :))
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